How to make the cat like me??

Oh, it is easy i think. Cats love who often feed them. So that you should do feed her...and for sure after a short time, the cat will love you.

I think she was a kind of feral cat because you said she is a one person cat. If you want to pet her understand her personality like what's her like and what makes her mad. You should make her used to you also even without trying to touch her like sitting in the sofa near her. You can give her food also while calling her name so that she will recognize you. You should always do that giving her food until you can touch her. If she doesn't like the food or she run away from you don't chase her she will getting madder at you. Hope this advice will help you. Good luck.[b][/b][i][/i][u][/u]

You said you've just recently moved into your cousin's home. The cat is probably uncertain of you because in her opinion you're a stranger. It takes time, sometimes several months to even a couple of years before a cat will accept a person. It's not something to rush, but I do know what helps is patience. Two years ago I adopted a stray mother cat and two of her three week old kittens. One of the kittens passed away unexpectedly about two weeks after I took them in and the remaining one nearly succumbed until I pumped him full of protein. While I was caring for him, he'd often run and hide from me, and I would have to put his protein meals down where he'd get it. As time passed, he grew and was still afraid of me, though the mother was extremely affectionate. Even when I separated him from his mother at eight weeks of age, he was still quite afraid of me and hid often. It took to nearly a year (every so often he'd hide from me) to see him become affectionate toward me. Now at two years of age, he is more apt to come around me and want to be petted. Though occasionally he has his days where he becomes scared and wants to hide. If you were to come to my house, you wouldn't see him unless you were lucky. A friend of mine has the same problem you do. He wants my cat to like him, but the cat always evades him. During the months my friend has been here, he has only been able to lightly surprise-pet the cat before the cat hid. But like I said it takes time and a lot of patience.

Your best bet with a cat like that is to ignore her chances are she will wonder why you are ignoring her and suddenly want to be your friend the other option is to give her special treats every time she does let you pet her it can take cats a long time to warm up to someone new in there lives expecially with an older cat who is already set in there ways

My neighbor's cats came over here at times long ago, one of them we ended up keeping as they didn't even seem to mind and he was probably happier over here too. The other one was a mean Siamese type of cat who really wasn't going to let us pet her. So, one day while she came on the back porch, I decided I would start toplay with her abit with some catnip toys. She started playing and would actually let me pet her abit too. My mom got mad at her one day and shooed her off with abroom and the next thing I knew was how I saw her sad face sitting across the street looking over here as if she missed us terribly and wouldn't come back. She looked so sick and lonely kind of though and that was the last I remember of her. :( She was actually coming around and feeling like we are a friend, and this happened with my mom. I felt so bad for her, they might have ignored her over there too like they did with the other cat I kept. They knew we had kept him too, & before they moved the lady tried to come over here to talk to us but we wouldn't open the door, ha! Mom and I were so scared they wanted to take the cat with them. He had already decided he loved it better with us. Anyways, what I'm trying to say is try to play with her, feed her, and just bond with her over time and she might try to come around too. My current cat is friendly with me and all but she will only sit on dad's lap! I brush her, feed her, put medicine on her, and other things but she won't sit on my lap. MY cat Joe from across the street was a total lap cat, he loved sitting in my lap. But as I have had several cats before, they do seem to choose one person in the household that they are closer with, you can't really change much it if you tried, it's their choice.

I used to lure any cats to like me by giving them food. I am not sure if this is applicable to all cats but it seems to work for every cats I have fooled into liking me. Cats are basically kind and sweet by nature, I am sure that you will be able to get that cat to like you eventually.

Feed the cat and smell like cat nip. Also, be very calm around the cat, if you are not calm, then that cat can sense fear all over you. Whenever there are cats around I try to be as calm as possible. Also, let them sniff you, if they can't sniff you, then they won't like you.

Ask your cousin if you can be the one to give the cat it's food. Other than that, y ou should just wait for the cat to cop me to you. At age 12, the cat is probably pretty well set in her ways.

I have cats in my house. Have you try to pet it's neck? My cats love it. You can try to attract them with move around your fingers, your hands, or maybe something like plastic or paper in front of their face.

Cats can definately be finnicky. I noticed that my grandma's cat didn't necessairly like me until I stayed over at my gma's house and fed the cat breakfast and dinner. The cat liked this, and now is very friendly with me.

Sounds like a very grumpy cat. ^^ It's cute. Well, I'm very much a cat-lover and my sister who's renting her own room in a different city just bought a cat recently, so when she visit our house she brought her cat with her. I've actually had a little trouble to make Nee-chee (her cat's name) like me as well, so I did little things for her to eventually soften up to me. I was pretty successful because after one and a half day, Nee-chee had been following me almost everytime she's out of her cage or when my sis doesn't pet her. One of the things I did is to play with her constantly, with a yarn string with a paper ball tied at the end of it. Sometimes I would tease her with the paper ball but I know she appreciates the other end of the string more. Cats were always curious creatures and they also like those sneaky little things like strings. I've played with her most of the time, and I would take charge of feeding her as well. I would also sometimes just hug and pet her even if she doesn't want to. ^^ Cats like being caressed under their jaws and near their ears so that's where I usually rub her, they love belly-rub too but you should also be careful because there's tendency that the cat would attack and try to scratch you. So those are just few things I did with Nee-chee, just take time bonding with them, although maybe that also depends on their age, Nee-chee is just few months old so she's very playful and I don't know to what extent does a 12 year old cat would like to play with us. Anyway, I wish you the best of luck form warming up the cat with you. :D