how to select a girlfriend?????any tips????
By meetjofin
@meetjofin (69)
India
May 16, 2012 8:10pm CST
HELLO...guys can you please tell me how to select a good girlfriend.,because a life without a girl is not possible(from my theory),i have girlfriends but cant make up my mind WHICH ONE,because one wrong step in doing so, she could ruin my life.if you guys got any ideas or tips please let me know...please...please...
5 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
17 May 12
How to select a girlfriend? Who do you think you are? You have nothing to select. A woman is not a pair of trousers you can pick out. You should be happy and grateful there is anyone who would like to have a guy with an attitude as yours.
And since you can not make up your mind this means they are NOT the right one at all. You just seem to want to pick out/select one so you can belong to the group. I pity you but above all I pity these girls since it's clear to me you are ruin their lives and are abusing them! You sound like a very selfish person to me!
@meetjofin (69)
• India
18 May 12
Oh..no.....you got me all wrong,you see i used to love a girl she was like everything to me until she dumps me and went with an another guy and you don't know how much it had made my heart to bleed and it took me a long time to recover from it,and from that moment i have been selective because i don't want the same thing to happen again......
@kand1990 (8)
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17 May 12
Hey meetjofin, I've been with my girlfriendfor over a year now and I always ask myself is this the girl that I wanna spend the rst of my life with. Then all I do is think about all the good things she does for me and how good she makes me feel about myself. And that always outways the the things that bother me about her. At the end of the day those little annoyances of mine seem very unimportant when this girl would do anything for me. You know a girl loves you when your the first person they talk to in the morning and the last at night. I'venever been with anyone who puts me before them and its great. If I were you I would just make a list of the things you love about the girl(s) and the things that bother you and when the good outways the bad that's how you know. I really hope this helps you out
@meetjofin (69)
• India
18 May 12
thanks man!!! that was a good piece of advice...i really appreciate it.
@nagatron123456 (888)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Well, choose a girlfriend who is mature and responsible enough to handle her role as your girlfriend. The key words here are MATURE and RESPONSIBLE, that is all you need to be happy. But so much for that, you can't really select one because most of the time, you fall in love to someone who is not even your type. If you are in a relationship, don't give all your love, observe first the attitude and the behavior then you can decide if she is the one. Good luck
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
17 May 12
I think you have to love someone all the way. If you hold back that person will never know who you are.
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
17 May 12
There is no standard you can go by. The best advice I can give you is to discover the person you are inside, and find a woman who can love you for being you. Unfortunately to find out who you are, you will need to be alone for a while. It is possible to live life without a girlfriend, and once you are comfortable being alone, that's usually when the right woman will find you.
@limechavez05 (67)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Love is not something selected, it's something you do not expect meetjofin. When love strikes, you'd just know that it's there. :) There's a risk we have to take one way or another.