Let me ask mom first...

i think as long as the man did not had an affair, why your friend must stop it? it is his rights for asking his mom.. it is not sin i think...

The guy seems to be so attached to his mom that he cannot make a decision by his own. This is just a early sign of what might happens incase they get married. His mum will be the one to take control of life. I think the girl should take her time and decide whether she want to live with such a person. By the way, is he aware of what he is doing is wrong?

I feel sorry for your friend for having a bf who is a mama's boy. If your friend really loves the guy let her speak to the guy that she finds his asking to his mom all the time a turn off. Let them talk about it, if the guy changes after their talk, maybe he really does love your friend and willing t take the mommy think into a minimum.

It's a very small reason to break up with a guy. It's best to tell that guy as honestly and as tactfully about his habit with his mom and you should tell this guy's mom about this too, because she is not helping her son become independent. Give the guy a chance to improve himself.

Ask his mom first! lol He should decide everything he wanna do in his life. He is not a kid anymore. It is up to you friend to decide if she want to stick with this guy and if she can handle his attitude to always ask his mom.

Awww...maybe she need to talk to the guy and tell him what she feels. Sometimes being honest could change everything. I feel bad for your friend but lets hope that both of them learn from this as well.

She should run away as fast as she can. Any adult, male or female, shouldn't be asking their mother what to do in every little facet of their lives. If your friend doesn't leave him now, she's just setting herself up for a life of either bowing to his mother's whims or spending her time and energy fighting a woman who clearly has her son completely under her thumb.

I don't think it is a relationship ending offense, but she should tell him that he needs to ease up on "mom" a little. Tell him he needs to start acting like a man instead of a little boy. And if he still asks mom about EVERYTHING, then maybe consider breaking up if it really bothers her.

Well,i think this guy is totally not indepentdant and to be honest,i wouln't choose him if i were your friend.Mom is indeed the greatest person coz they give us the lives,but you are grownups and i think we should all know this,this is kind of unmature.

ha ha that is really weird my friend and i can understand that how much frustrate your friend must be feeling. but the problem here lies with the parents and not with the boy if you ask me.in childhood it is okay to ask your mom before making any decision and parents do crave for such a child who is so much obedient. but the problem lies when parents forgot to make him realize how it is necessary to make one's own decision in life.Parents are there to make inculcate in you the best of things and believes but ultimately t is you who have to take the control of your life, not them. i have came across many such boys and girls in my life but i must admit that its more irritating when a boy do such things than a girl.but you should tell your friend to make her boyfriend understand the importance of making one's own decision by not hurting his sentiments and his parent's sentiments. In case he refuse to understand and stick to same behavior then its better she take off from the relation, as this kind of relation have no good expectation in future and many complication can arise.

I have a friend who was married to a guy like that. Was is the operative word because they are now separated. Good riddance. When they were still together as a boyfriend-girlfriend, she dealt with the issue lightly. She thought that it was sweet that the guy is very fond of his mother. During that time, we already warned her that the guy she was with is indeed a mama's boy which is a turn-off especially at a certain age. But she married the guy and little did she know, it will be hell since. 5 months after marrying the mama's boy, my friend could not take it anymore. The guy wants to ask permission to her parents before buying new appliance to their home, going to place for a honey moon, and all those stuff. It was a mistake on my friend's part and she is regretting being married to the guy who cannot even stand up for her. The mother of the guy told her son to abandon my friend, and clearly that is what he did. For three months, although they were not yet separated, the guy wouldn't even talk to my friend whom he married, just because that is what his mother told him. It is irritating and good thing they are separated now.

hahahaha.. That's funny. How old is he, actually? Honestly, I myself will get annoyed with that kind of guy. I agree, a man should decide his own life. For something very important, maybe it's okay to ask his mom for opinion. But for simple thing like buying a shirt, I don't think that mom should be involved in here. That's childish.