How do u handle people who's obviously there to use u?

Some people are just like that. Be frank with her and tell her to stop. If you told her that already, keep telling or reminding her about it.

Hi, if she did it for the first time and you have talked with her about this issue, she may correct it, if it is done without knowledge. But if she do it again and again and even after you have talked to her, she is doing it purposely. For this situation, either you have to raise your hands or just move away from that place to save yourself from her again and again using you. If she is shown pity, she wont be stopping it at any time. Take care.

Is she trying to be u? haha :D Why does she has to do that in the first place? She's like trying to take over u, replace your status in front of your friends. haha U should not be bothered about her because the moment she gets all she wanted, she will start to leave u alone. By then, u might already all your credibility or trust because of her Get the problem solved by getting out of her life, it would do u good ^^

It sounds like you have already told her how she is making you feel and completely confronted her with this issue. If she is still behaving this way then it is probably just time to cut her loose. You don't need someone like that in your life. She is not a good a person and she does not value you as a friend or a human being, she does not deserve your friendship. It is time stop taking her calls and to stop hanging out with her. If people don't enhance your life then they are not worth having around, seek out new friendships with better quality people.

One thing you could try is talking to her and telling her a "story" about a person who pretended to be your friend just to get something from you and how you had to cut that person lose because you realized what they were doing. She would not have to know you are referring to her, she would think you were talking about someone else but she would then see what you do to people who treat you that way. It may help to open her eyes to see that you knwo what she's doing. In the end you may have to actually cut her off. If she asks why just say you are not comfortable with the way the relationship has been going and you thnk it is better for both of you if you back away for a while.

Hi there! Perhaps she fall in love with your surroundings. She likes everything you have, you friends and so on. It just like what happened to someone I know. This one friend makes my friend feel that she's been ignored by others because of this that one friend. She does not want others to be with my friend and my friend feel sad. Fortunately she is a strong girl and don't care if that one friend wants to take everyone around her as she still can meet and make new friends. Anyway you need to tell her that you dislike what she did even if she make the amnesia thing again and again.(^^)

Avoid her and stopped talking to her. If she doesn't listen and stop what she is doing, then the best thing you can do is, to put a gap between you and her. Never talked to her and always avoid her. She is too good with manipulating other people, so be it- those people and your friends will come to know about the truth one day... Believe that, there is no bad intention and lies that won't be revealed.

Just tell her what you feel and just keep away from her. Make her understand what you want. Don't allow her to be closed to you and warn your friends about her. There will be possibility that she will use your friends against you so better be prepared.

I dismiss those type of people out of my life completely and entirely, no remorse. Forgiven, but not forgotten and never again can we be friends. Polite passersby only at that point.

Friend same position was with me a girl make me friends and we were friends but she used me for her study purpose. Then after completing purpose she told me dont talk with me I feel very shocking how can a girl use to another girl. I also stop talking with her but next time no make any friend.

I would agree with a mylotter. To be frank and tell her. Maybe you need to be more specific. Maybe she is acting to show her innocence. You tell her clearly and tell her to stay out sternly. She should stop.

If you really think she is bothering you then you can cut her off from all your communication by changing your phone numbers and letting her know that you are truly fed up with her.

It is sometime difficult to understand a person who newly walked into your life.It takes time to adjust but if at any point of time you realise there are some intolerable things just make the person understand your problem,i mean set some terms and conditions because these are the things which if not rectified may turn your life into hell.So mere cribbing upon the things is no remedy ,streamline the things before it turns grave and you end up as a sufferer.

just ignore her if she doesn't listen to you. anyway, it's not your lost.it hers. if she's not listening to you, then it just proved that she just befriended you because she need something from you. be intelligent enough to know whose worth your time.

Everybody here has some good advice, and one thing I know for sure, is that you need to confront here immediately, because the longer you wait to do it, the more she is gonna think she can get away with it! As soon as she sees that she cannot get away with it the sooner she will stop! And you have to be strong and decisive!

If you don't like hanging out with her then as the others have said then just avoid her. It doesn't sound as if you really like her much at all anyway. That being said, I'm not sure that I follow just what exactly she is doing that is so wrong. You say that she wants "everything you have" which is what? If you think she is going to steal from you then you just should not have her around at all. She wants to be friends with your friends? Maybe she likes them like you do. Am I misunderstanding this? I'm not following what the problem is. She wants fame??? How would she get that from hanging out with you?? I feel like I'm just misunderstanding a lot in this discussion.

Ignore and stay away from her as much as possible. If she keeps on going where ever you go, try to ask her to leave you alone. I haven't felt being used before so my advise won't be as good as the others.

Yes it really is a bad thing when we come to the conclusion that this person is there just to use us. It really does hurt, as we obviously took the friendship far more serious than the other person really does. Yet there are just some people who obviously are not going to take the friendship all too seriously. It is really a sad state. It is really hard to deal with people like this and it is a sad moment when we just have to cut them loose from our lives. But it is rather necessary to really do, because they aren't doing us much of any good. And obviously, they are going to act like they have done nothing wrong. Because in their minds, they have done nothing wrong. To live the life of delusions, it must be nice.

There's only one thing you can do, stop the friendship. Unfriend her from your life and she would be out immediately. If your friends around you knows it, they will come back to you. I have similar friends like her and i have unfriend quite a few of them. What hurts me most is, such friends would often get our very friends to turn their back on us, sowing discord in order for them to fully owned them. I dislike such person and i won't hesitate to be harsh on them when opportunity rises.

Well, dear friend, you and me, we are somewhat the same way! In the sense that I feel I have almost no personality, then, in the span of my life I've been used by many people. In particular, and this is almost I might recommend it to you, a person who wanted to go out with me, but "control" him. This to me was not at all well! One evening I took the phone and called him, finding him an excuse I said simply, "I feel I do not frequent more than you, friends like before!"