cheating

it reallyn hurts of course.. now it depends on you if you can forgive him

Cheating is derived from two things. The first thing is selfishness. Cheaters only think about themselves, and what makes them happy. The second is low self esteem. Cheaters seek attention from many people , because deep down inside they never feel like they are good enough for anyone. My advice when dealing with a cheating boyfriends is to move on. He will only see the error in his ways, when he finds himself pitifully alone, because he burned evrey bridge he crossed.

I have been cheated on. He didn't really do everything he could to win me back. Really I didn't fully know he had cheated on me till later in the relationship. He lied about what happened till later but the damage was done anyway. I think that couples who make it through something like that are very rare.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Well, maybe that's not true, but if my boyfriend cheated on me, I would have to let him go. For good. That would be a huge blow to the ego for me and I wouldnt' need that kind of stress bogging me down. I have never had a boyfriend cheat on me before... That I know of. lol.

Yes i was, it happened six years ago. I thought he could wait for me until I'll have my diploma in college. I was just 3rd year that time, he asked me to marry him. I set my mind already that I wont marry yet. We still continue our relationship after that proposal, yet he met another girl secretly. He said he was just carried away, he still loves me. But for him to fix his mind if he's ready for that big thing, I broke up with him and told him that if he can wait, I'll look for him soon. We met again with a bad news from him. He was happy to see me but he can't be with me anymore. The girl that he was with was pregnant. He kept on crying and never wanted to attend on his wedding. We met trice in the beach just to talk about so many things. I told him that if he really loves me, he must marry the girl. Soon he will learn to love her. I'm from a broken family and I know what's the feeling of growing up without parents at my side. That's the thing that I don't want his child to experience.

cheating should never be an option in a relationship, if the relationship gets boring than talk it out with one another and if you can't save it, then end it rather than cheat. Some people say "sh*t happens" when they cheat, or when you're cheated on, but honestly that's not how it works beacuse it takes two people to cheat, it happened because you let it happen, you let the situation take place.