I am usually irritable with my husband.

Just think about what you just said. Your husband seems to be understanding and not want to fight. So next time you start to go off just think about that and calm down and say what you have to say in a more civilized manner. I wish I could be like your husband. When my wife snaps at me I snap back. This only causes more problems.

I have to say that I know how you feel, because I am exactly the same with my partner when he annoys me. Sometimes, I just can't even look at him because everything he does seems to annoy me, and I know that it gets to him but I can't help it. I think that hormones have a lot to do with it, because I can't look at any men without them annoying me sometimes, yet I can still be around my girl friends perfectly fine without any trouble at all. I apologise to him the next day though because I almost always feel very differently about everything then.

When a couple is deeply in love, you can only see the other person beautiful part. So you just need to focus on how good your husband and not pin pointing to his weakness

I understand how you feel. You see, I also am very moody and irritable especially during my period. My bf really hated it, but because he loves me, he is the one who ignores my mood swings and is the one who keeps me calm. Just try to think of your husband being there always for you even you are very irritable. Try to think if your husband deserves all your mood swings. It works for me to think all those things as it keeps me calm and come back to my senses.

I don't have a husband, but i have a boyfriend of 5 years and i'm also getting very irritable with. It gets worse when i'm tired or when i'm not happy about something. Through the course of 5 years, i realise myself getting worse. I get unhappy wtih him about the slightest thing. I know i should be behave this way, but somehow, i don't know why i just behave this way when i am with him. Like your husband, my boyfriend just smiles at me and tries to be patient with me. However, there are times when he loses his cool. But i can't blame him for i am really quite difficult to deal wtih. I'm really exactly like what you say, i sometimes have sudden, irritability bouts and i think my boyfriend is not going to be able to take this behavior of mine for too long. So i have to either change myself or that he should make some changes. Perhaps this is just our personality. I have thought about this question before an i think perhaps this is because we are just like that by nature. in front of others, our parents, our friends, i do get irritated with them as well, but i just won't show cause they are friends and between friends there still need to be some restraint there. But with my boyfriend, i feel quite at ease wtih him and that whenever i'm with him, i just act myself and when i'm angry, i'll get angry. i don't have to pretend in front of him like when i'm in front of others. this is just one explanation that i have for myself. Perhaps for you it is another matter. Perhaps you can check with your husband how he feels about your irritable-ness with him and whether he feels it or not.

Most times just ignore the flaws. By now you people should be used to each other and tolerate each other better.

Well only you can solve your problem dear. Why do you have to be irritable? Are there things in your life that you are not happy about? These may be the real reasons why you are so irritable. If irritability is starting to build on you, the I suggest you keep away from your husband. Go to a secluded place and find ways to get over your boredom and weariness. Be afraid of the time when your husband finds a way of getting rid of you. I know a woman who acts the same way as you do and she was never bothered at all believing his husband was anyway too kind and tolerating. But one day she woke up to find out that his husband has found a sweeter woman who is exactly her opposite. She was crying and regretting but too late because her husband could no longer give up the other woman who has given her not just love but the respect he missed for so long.

I usually feel this sometimes when i am near my period but other than that, i try my best not to, as home will never be a home if we always feel this way.

Myabe it is just way to express your love for your husband. haha. Well, sometimes I am experiencing that also. But that is because I found my husband too kind and accommodating and I hate it when people abuse him. Sometimes, because of stress I get that feeling also. I am just thankful that despite that my husband still loves me, hehe. I try to avoid it and just think that I love my husband and I don't want to hurt his feelings.

I did the same with my bf when i am near my period too. But currently i am very calm and a bit cold whenever i talk with him...i really don't know what is going on, but it is my feeling. It is nice when you have a good husband who is very delicate. You can talk about it directly to your husband and he will help you pass this time.

It is normal to doubt like that..I had that in the start and in the run time..I knew it was just nothing..but a feeling..

i have a friend ,but we are broken up last week.i also irritable when stay with him ,he is so good to me .but his mother can not bear my temper and force him to stay away with me .now we are broken up ,but he have a girlfriend at such a short time .he is a guy who do everything according to his own thinking.

It is better to keep mum if our mood is not good. While we are in anger, everything would goes wrong from our words to actions. It is better to be away if you have such short anger till you get calm. If you explain this to him, he will understand it and would allow you to come back to normal. It may help you.