Love Is Blind?

Well I think love is blind, to external beauty. When you really fall in love, you understand that external beauty is not important. What is really important is a person's inside, the nature, behavior, something like the instinct, the care, the love and all. Some qualities, harsh, can be ignored if the person is really caring and the harsh behavior was deliberate. Well I think love is blind, but to external beauty...........

Its a hard thing to do Randy. I once loved a woman so much, I was willing to move 3000 miles away from everyone I knew just to be with her. She lied, she cheated, and she betrayed me, but my love for her would not allow me to walk away.

A lot of people have been in relationships that they know are no good for them in the past, but it is often hard for them to walk away, especially if they feel as though they love the person who they are with at the time. I was with a man for four years who I knew didn't love me in the same way that I loved him, but I was so desperate to be with him that I didn't care at the time. We eventually broke up because I just hated what I was doing to myself by being with him, but by then I had already wasted a fair amount of my life on him which was horrible to have to admit to people when we broke up.

Yes, i've been in that situation before. It took me months to finally recover and realize that the relationship I had was unhealthy. I felt like i did not have freedom when I was with him but in other side I did not want him to go away from me. It was a lovesick relationship, I've tried my best to understand him, tried my best to keep the relationship stable. At first I can understand that he feels insecure with our relationship because of the age gap and he thinks I was too beautiful and might leave him for other guy lol, that was ridiculous, he kept saying if only he was younger, if only he had better education as the reason why he was over jealous to my friends. But then I cant stand it anymore and I cannot accept his excuses to prevent me from hang out with my friends and even prevent me from talking to my friend who lives abroad. When I love someone, I love him for who he is and I dont care his age, his education, it is not like he is way too older to me, I think 10 or 13 years age difference is not odd and many couples has this age differences. The relationship was unhealthy, when I was tired after having a hard day at my part time job and then had to rush to go to my university he got mad because I was late to send him message, he got mad because so many things and he made up the reasons. Glad it is over. oh at first I was like hell, I thought I was deeply in love with him and I was so sad when we broke up. but then thinking about the freedom I have, and then the bright future that I might have without him I come to my senses that he was not the right man for me. He was great i dont want to blame him at all, but his insecurity almost killed my sanity.

Hi randy,i think love is not blind,i belong to that kind of people,that's i am clear and sensible when i meet love,i won't love bites,love a person should be fully respect him,that's someone say,love ,love only a little,leaving more time and space to love yourself,do you think is right?