How will i fix my broken heart?
By graica
@Gracia2010 (282)
Thailand
June 1, 2012 11:57am CST
Hello friends, i have been in a several failure relationships and it's has given me a big phobia to love again and let my self back in the track. I am afraid to open up my heart for someone new, because my mind is saying history might happen again. I also started to hate people who leaves me after me loving them.
I want to learn on how to overcome the pains and bitternes in my heart, i felt it totally broken. I am trying to block every new guy who shows interest in me, because i immediately feel upset whenever i receive the same sweet talks i've heard before from the my past.
Do you think what i am doing is right? Or shall give another chance for someone to come? But i am afraid i might get hurt again or get worst. Please kindly tell me what better to do?
4 responses
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
friend, now is the perfect time to pour your love to yourself, as your heart heals with time take advantage of the opportunity of taking care of yourself first, even if it take many years before you will going to be ready to open your heart to anybody, taking care of yourself should be the foremost priority now, with that you will always stay beautiful, young, and always be ready to love and to be loved...
@Gracia2010 (282)
• Thailand
31 Aug 12
Thank you friend, i will do it very nice advise. Yes i might have forgotten my self by loving other people. I believe you that it is now the time to change my views in life and be more positive....
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
31 Aug 12
that's more like it!, and don't forget that when you enter into relationship again, don't give love 100 percent to your guy and 0 for yourself, or vice-versa,..it is always possible to love your guy and loving yourself as well, that way you will never pitty yourself by loving your guy more than yourself, and you will never feel guilty by loving your guy less than yourself... good luck on your next relationship, it will surely come, but with a mature heart and mind on your part, don't stop loving, there will always be a right love and right time for everyone who really deserves it...
@Gracia2010 (282)
• Thailand
31 Aug 12
Thank you for great response, time heals and i hope i will be my heart will be fine soon..
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
3 Jun 12
Hi friend.I think that life continues and you should certainly open your heart to make other people go in.But for the moment,what you can really do is that times heals and you will certainly forget that pain to continuely move on.Trust me,everything is gonna be ok.
@Gracia2010 (282)
• Thailand
3 Jun 12
Hi friend, i am trying to do it now. i hope i will have a better in the future...i don't want those heartaches will happen again to...If a new love will come to me....it will be the last and perfect... I can't afford to get hurt anymore.
@ForSouls1234 (720)
• United States
2 Jun 12
I wouldn't totally rule out love, time heals. I had my heart broken a few times before I met my husband. I had given up on men at the time and was just concentrating on working then there he was, the new guy at work. Maybe you should give up on the sweet talkers and just let the next relationship develop naturally and slowly.
