Birthday Present : Do I need to give it now?

You are welcome! Just let me know if it worked. When you presented it? what u told? and how she reacted. Please share it with us :) good luck

oh thanks for your support man! i will post it here if it turned out good, but he it did not or something worse happened maybe I will take it all my self and will not post it here, but I am hoping that it will bed good!

oh thanks for the advice dude! That will help me much in what i will tell when i finally give her the gift. Thanks. I think this is a big help.!

Do i really need to give it now? I am thinking of that thing too. But I have greeted her on her birthday. But there is no gift. Can you suggest something?

wow a fine dining thing is nice but is'nt it too much as I am not courting her? Maybe she will not accept it because she is not taking suitors yet, by the way, thanks for the advice maybe if something happened not in my plan this can be the solution.

If you ask me a suggestion since I don't know her, I prefer you to invite her like to have a fine dining.

I am a woman then i think you should listen to woman's opinion...Men and women have different thinking...

for me, it is just a thing that maybe she will not forget, not that I do not want to give here the gift on her birthday. I see that almost all of the response do not agree with me.

The birthday is pretty much the only day that is about that one person the other days they don't count. You can give a gift other then a birthday present any other day of the year and it means nothing its not that special at least not for a women. We want gifts on that day unless you live far away from each other. I would be pissed at any friend or family member that lived close to me that didn't give me a gift or a card the day before, of or the day after my birthday. They don't seem to care about me if they wait a week or a month or 3 days later then we are not friends or family really at all. They are just people that really didn't give a sh!t about me they are making it about when they think its okay to give a gift. You never try to find another day that will be better then the day you where physically born on. As a mom if someone didn't give my daughter a gift on her birthday that to me is and insult to her life and all of our friends and family that care and love her made sure her gifts where her the day of her birthday. We got most all with her Christmas gifts to put up for another month. That to me means they care about the day she came into this world there is no other special day in this world then that day as well as the day her brother will be born on.

oh if thats so.. I am looking for a day celebration like for example a "chocolate day or etc." someday that is a great day of celebration. Plus the gift hope that i will work. And if not, then there is another time to give a present and more years will come.

oh now I see that my gift will not work any more. That thing will bother me, maybe ill wont give it any more or the gift will serve as a normal day gift. :( thanks for sharing your opinion.

Yes, what you have said is already thinked by me.. Hmmm I can say that what will I do is really awkward and a bit somewhat that maybe irritating. But I want something that she will not forget her whole life. Yes the gift was a very simple one, but I think she have not recieved a birthday gift not on her birthday. Yeah it is really really awkward. Haha but I am after to those things that she will not forget. Haha am i crazy? :-)

You could always wait till next year. Apparently she forgives you this time around. LOL.

Nice idea! Maybe i will keep all my gifts for her and will wait for her next birthday to come and give her all the present! So she will have a lots of gifts from me next year on her birthday! LOL

I am hoping that what happened to you will happen to me too so that it will turn out good too. Independence day is a good date too. Thanks for the info.

dude that thing bothers me now! Oh what will i do, but thanks for that. I might think of some ways she finds it good considering what you have said..

oh things have come into my mind that I might fail. But i will do this thing! :) i hope that it will be nice to her. Maybe i will just give it to her and when she asks for what is that i will say that she will find it out when she opened the gift. :)

You said that you girl love surprises from the one that is special to you. Hmmm I do not know if i am a normal, more than normal, or special to here in any way.. I do really find her special, and something different in many ways to others.. I am not yet courting her because she is not allowing suitors until she graduates in college. Hope that things in well! Thanks.

I am planning for the date when I will give it, surely, I will give it to her personally so that it will be good. So it will be somewhat special

yes it is very tricky but what I am after is the thing that she will not forget. I am really thinking of a thing that can be a nice package for the day that I will finally give my late birthday present.

Thanks for what you have said. This gives me hope and strength to make things that i have not done before. I am more encouraged now.

thats the one thing too. I made her think that maybe I forgot to give her a present or I really do not have a present. This thing is a tricky thing and awkward i know but i hope this will turn up successful.

oh the memories and happines on that exact day. . I can not bring those things back but i will make memories of me in her and somewhat give her even a small amount of happines.

thanks for the respond friend. I am hoping that she will appreciate it. Because my gift is just a simple gift that I think she will not forget. Plus the awkward day that I am planning is an additional unforgettable thing i thought. I hope this will work well.