Love hurts?
By ayang_baby
@ayang_baby (46)
Singapore
June 3, 2012 8:41am CST
Wow. I had an experienced,very hurtful. Sometimes I hate to be in love cause it's hurt. As the other party do not understand me. He don't understand my needs. I tried to take care of him with full of love and tried to understand him but why can't him? Why sometimes love is hurtful.? Anyone.?
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8 responses
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
3 Jun 12
I think you may be breaching the point where love meets obsession. While we can love someone, when we are blind to that persons mistreatment of us, it can be a bad thing. My suggestion would be to explain how you feel, and if he cant understand or even try to understand you may have to re evaluate if you want to stay in this relationship.
@ayang_baby (46)
• Singapore
5 Jun 12
Re evaluate for the relationship it is a good idea. But still have to re consider I guess cause if broke off u get hurt and if u stay also u get hurt . And have to choose the decision wisely too.. Thank you
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Leaving hurts, but it also means you respect yourself enough not to stay in an unhealthy relationship. It's one of those things you have to learn. I think about it like this, there will be someone else better for me, and the longer I mess around with the person who treats me badly the more time I take away from the person who will treat me right.
@yimsiupang (237)
•
5 Jun 12
Wow```i am sorry to hear your experience,why sometimes love is hurtful?i think hurtful is universal,please don't be afriad when you love someone,love needs understanding,i hope yu will harvest a beautiful love,good luck~~
@ayang_baby (46)
• Singapore
5 Jun 12
Hey there, I want to thank you for your encouragement and for the support.. Seriously I found that all the people in here is so supportive ,giving encouragement to each other,motivation which motivates me more.. I wanna thank to all the people who have been responding to my discussion.. Thank you so much everyone
@ayang_baby (46)
• Singapore
5 Jun 12
Thank you Katie. I shall keep that in mind and I shall not forget myself . Thanks for the kind respond and discussion guys. This is really helpful.. Thank you all
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
3 Jun 12
Love is full of happiness and also painful to everyone.Sometimes it is really hurt if you just ended up a relationships.I think that time just proves it and we will all recover from that since time heals.More emotion you devoted,more hurtful you will be and that's what i've thought about love.
@ayang_baby (46)
• Singapore
5 Jun 12
Yes I agreed . The more you hold on to the person thr wasn't meant to be your the more you hurt yourself.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
15 Jul 12
Love really can hurt. I have experienced that in the past. It takes time to deal with and get over. Sometimes it's just a matter of adjusting to the changes. We may for a long time have feelings for someone.
@knowledgehub (202)
• India
5 Jun 12
the difference is only that you was loving him by heart or he was wanting you only physically,what to do,cant do anything,
@ayang_baby (46)
• Singapore
5 Jun 12
Maybe I know what i should do. Sometimes we must put that love feeling away sO we ain't gonna keep on falling down all the time. Just leave him alone and find some thing better.. Cause I believe if god take away some thing from you in return god will give some thing greater than why you have before
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
I dont know the whole story of what happened to you, but I think some people expect too much from the person that they love and it comes to the point wherein they would want to have the very same thing that they are capable of giving. Remember each and every people are different in so many ways. So when we love we get hurt and that's a fact, but we should learn from these hurtful experiences. I have always believed that somewhere along that winding road the love of my life is waiting and someday in God's time we will be with each other. But for now, I will Live, Love and Learn until the that very special day comes.
@yuekim123 (161)
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
Love is hurtful;more hurtful especially when it's true and sincere.But that is the essence of love.. It is not always a bed of roses, we must also undergo hurt.
