Stop lying

People who are insecure like to tell stories to make themselves better than they really are. The fact is since the internet is so impersonal, many people get away with it.

Sometimes people lie because they feel insecure. We all have times when we don’t feel good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, or capable enough. We lie to cover up our perceived shortcomings. We lie to make others feel good. We lie to avoid consequences. We lie to protect others.

What is wrong with a right hand drive Jaguar? I find it to be great car!

I honestly think that some people have lied for so long, that they just do it without really thinking about it. To them, honesty would be something that would be the real lie. I think we all know that eventually lying will never get anyone anywhere in life, with any facet of it. Yet there are going to be people who still lie right through their teeth. Some people really are just so committed to the wall, it is amazing, if they had committed themselves to something more productive with all of the commitment, imagine how far they would go. But sadly no. It won't get anyone anywhere, especially when they can make claims that can be easily be disproved by something like proof, which they have none. Then again, some people just live in a world of lies, where the truth no longer exists.

Hi toni Lying to get attention of anyone is the first thing on my Never to do list. Not that I dont lie 9if I said I didnt, it would a lie too) but why to tell lies to win attention when you can be a winner by doing so many other simple things? But then, I have read and am sure you too would have read something similar - the world looks the same way as you are... so I guess, if a person feels that lies can get his/her attention, the same might work for all others. So such people would always try to look things that way... no matter how much they know about others

People lie to impress others.If they lie to a girl,they are,in all likelihood,trying to get her.Some of them are habitual liers.They tell lies,because it is their habit.Often they try to show themselves to others through a magnifying glass.So never take anybody at face value.Judge whether what they say is right or true.Especially girls should try to avoid being gullible.

That seems to be the way of the world these days... People who lie are usually wanting to impress and as a therapist, I have discovered that such feel insecure and not really attractive or interesting to other people. Lying was very prevalent when I was in school.. A couple of guys I knew told lies about what cars their parents drove, and when you got to see the cars, that wasn't the case at all. The problem is that they don't realize how easy it is to get caught out with a lie.. They have to have a good memory to start with! It doesn't really make a lot of difference to me if people lie to me, but if I find out, I tend to always confront them about the lie. Lying causes stress and being a therapist, it is automatic for me to correct this... _Derek.

Men are always like that whenever they are trying to win a girl. They would paint themselves so good so they can make the girl want them. Good, if the girl is gullible, they can get it by that. Hmm, are they trying to win you Toni? Knowing you from your posts, i know susupalpalin mo sila ( you will block their bragging).

Are you talking of persons whom you met in some site? Well i am not member of any site except mylot, i call internet as world of illusion, where none can be trusted, the cheaters will be caught one day or other Happy posting, cheers. Kalyani

Well, he just wants to play you i think. A man will be honest with a woman who he truly falls love with. For sure we don' like to receive a lie but many people do it to cheat the others. Better you should keep a distance with him.

Just run away from such people. It is good that you were able to realize all this early enough. I just do not get it why people lie thinking that you will never know about it. You cannot win anyone by lying.

Those kind of people are just trying to impress you, hoping to get your attention. I'm glad you are not one of those girls who are easily impressed by the things they have or how they let themselves look intelligent above from the rest. Bragging is only done by people who are nothing 'cause that's the only thing they can do and nothing more. I also prefer honest people, no pretensions and very true to themselves.

it is good that you are careful and not gullible and easily taken in by all these horrid liars toniganzon! you never know, when you are talking to people on these sites. it is scary, because not everyone is honest, so many people are unscrupulous and sometimes even psychopathic and criminal. it is good that you have brought out this discussion to remind people that it can be dangerous to blindly trust others that you talk to on computer sites.

Yeah, i know that feeling. I really hate someone who is lying on you, it's like cheating but maybe much worst. I think those people who are lying maybe considered as people who failed in life hundreds of times.

There's a saying that goes "If You can't blind them with Brilliance,Baffle 'em with BS!" Telling the truth isn't enough for some..they've got to try and impress their listeners with their exploits and achievements no matter how far from the truth they're preopared to go to do that.. Sorry,I'm not getting the point of the story about the Jaguar..If the Car you saw a picture of is right hand drive,then it must be an import..Or,it's a photo of a car that's in a Country that uses RHD,for example,the UK,or Japan..Does it have NY Licence Plates ? I'm unfamiliar with the procedures and criteria for importing a car into the US,so is it possible to import and use an unmodified RHD car there? If not,it appears You've caught the NY "Jag Driver" out for insufficient truthiness..

I have a friend who does nothing but tell lies, and he seems to spend most of his time doing so. Every time we see him, he is making something else up, and I just think it must be a second nature to him now. It doesn't even impress us anymore because we are so used to not believing anything that he says, so I am not sure at all why he still insists on lying about things. He is always lying about getting new cars and then something will happen to mean that it can't be delivered, or that he can't come and show it to us.

good day toniganzon, upon reading your post, i also feel annoyed to those persons whom you refer to. as they are just trying to imply a bogus personality. hence, they are doing this just to attract and get others attention. and this is not right and proper. that they are putting a wrong info on the people whom they met. yet, it is still best to introduce yourself honestly. that if you are telling the truth about your personality, then, you will be more attracted to others. thus, being an honest person will also lead you to meet a good friends at all. and i too, are disgusted whenever i met friends who are dishonest even to their selves.

They are all, in one simple term, liars. Just remember this saying and it should get you through life. "Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear."

Yeah.. I don't get people who wants to hide in a facade in order to make you feel inferior.

Lying is not a good habit. To be honest is the best way to have true friends. Also, in the work to be honest is the effective to be promoted.