shall i admit it?

Why do you have to admit it if whe wasn't aware of it them? Or maybe she was? In that case you could let her know that your view of her has not changed and that you consider her to be a very fortunate person and someone that you would have liked to have been, had you been given a choice. I was fascinated by a response on the previous page. A 'crush' as you intend it is exactly the same as how I intend it too, and I am only across the pond from the US

You could admit it. Of course you run the risk of making her feel very uncomfortable.

Beats me. I have never had a crush on anyone ever. I have no idea what that means, or how it works or anything. If I did get a girl, I would want it to be a "real woman" as you say.

the point is: admitting to her? to your family? to your friends? I can be politically correct and tell you "don't be afraid and tell everybody what you feel" but i experienced myself what preconceptions could do, so be careful: if she is an open minded person you can talk in serenity but if she is narrow-minded you could scare her or even disgust her. I like men but I don't dislike girls and I'm really lucky I have people near me who understand and love me anyway but I know a friend who was not so lucky and has been ousted by her mother. The very bad reality is that we cannot express ourselves everyday and with everybody unless to be excluded, because there are too many mean people yet.

Yes you can admit it to her. Maybe, that is just a normal reaction of girls studying in an exclusive schools. You can admit that you just fond of their cuteness, and tell them that you are a real woman. hehehe

There is nothing wrong on having a crush with the same gender even if you are a real woman. And there is nothing wrong on telling her that you had crush on her. Crush is just liking something on that person. It is not love. So its okay to admit it.

Intriguing...

To avoid her from coming into conclusions, you can always admit it in front of everyone so you can all laugh and forget about it afterwards. Saying something like that in front of a person where there's only the two of you would most likely make her feel uncomfortable.

Hi SimplyD Never mind what she would think but go ahead and let her know. It seems that you people dont communicate these days and so I would say it might open up doors for some great friendship.

yea, just admit it, take the pressure off yourself

Does it matter if you admit or not? Do you want anything from her? Perhaps you should wait and see her in person first.. a pic is not the same.

You can admit to her.. hehehehhee :-)

It should be okay if you tell her, I guess she won't take it personally. Besides that was still in high school. Good thing also that you are still a woman. hehehe

there is no harm in admitting it. it would be fun i guess. cause many years have passed and both of you are matured enough to just laugh it off. all the best :)

Why are you asking us when you have already decided to do it? That sort of thing might be "normal" and acceptable in your culture but in ours, it means you are showing lesbian tendencies. Which is not to say you ARE a lesbian but it means you would be willing to try it out. Having "a crush" on someone means you feel romantically towards that person. It's that simple. You say you are a "real woman" (wife, mother etc) but lesbians are real women too and I'm sure many are married and have children just like some homosexual men. In my world, you would keep things to yourself unless you are prepared to embarrass the other people, embarrass yourself and have people think you are admitting you are a lesbian.

I have a number of girl crushes myself and i'm not ashamed to admit it. It's pretty normal to appreciate other women. It doesn't mean you're gay when you like another woman unless you like her romantically or sexually. I'm not attracted to women sexually but i get attracted with their confidence, intelligence, talent and beauty. When I was in elementary school I had two girl crushes and both were ballet dancers. And that went on till we were in high school. They were three years ahead of me. Then two years ago, they both added me on facebook and I was not ashamed to tell them how much I admired them when we still went to the same school!

hey friend, i would like you to have a chance and admit this to her at the reunion party.well this happens and also common with many girls.when a girl; is really cute and sweet , a crush can be a normal thing. I would advise you to say this to her is a funny way and make sure that she too take it in a light manner,ha ha ha! all the best! :)