Are you too NICE?

Hey blink, You a very wise person I can say that.. :) I would take your advice .. But yeah I agree. Especially managers or people with power think they can talk to anyone in anyway. Knowing they have the power to fire me trying to abuse that power for their self satisfaction. In then end that's is just wrong and.. They will get what's coming to them..

@ pay-out... thank you for that words of yours.I do appreciated it... I am glad you keep my advise,being a co-worker or a worker trying to do the best that we could possibly do in order to improve the company.Then our boss/manager just only say some foul words without noticing he/she hurting someone in which was/is not relevant to the cause of the problem. One day that situation will keep coming back. Coz I just noticed when we have problems, same situation or events and we already know it but we just ignored the same situation instead we burst out with anger coming from frustration/dissappoinment that we are facing in everyday Humans life. Life is too short payout,every words you stated are more than thousands times cursing yourself. What you do to others will remain scars and it's not gonna work to fixed with anger/hostile person. Just continue of what you do, and trust me more blessing you will receive without noticing it's happening..

@ pay-out.. Remember! She/He is Human nothing to fear..Don't be scared if you lose your job.Just be yourself and stand firmly. Knowing that you speak heartily with integrity.As long as you are in a right position to respond, though some people gossiping you about what happened.Remember their trapping themselves with their own tongue..

Hey yoyo1198, HAHA... yeah, I also try to avoid those too because one time me and another. mylotter.. got into it and never again... I was just getting HOT.. @ the situation.. I honestly wanted to go into the computer screen haha.. soo yeah.. Never again.. lol.

Yeah, when it comes to where I'm ready to throw something through the monitor or shake the crap out of it, it's time to get out.

HAHAHA!! Lately I just go WORKOUT and.. burn it off haha.. or listen to music to chill down.. lol.. Thats for stuff outside Mylot.. If it ever gets that serious.. I would probably.. give mylot a Vacation time haha.. off.. Mylot hahah

Getting told that there are people out there with better standards and better.. Background then you and you should be grateful to have a job. .. Soo can you imagen looking and seeing this person 5 data week and the smiling in your face.. If anything.... If I was daring enough I will Cus her out.

I don't hate anyone either, but I notice stupidity miles awhile and my manager gives a face to that title. And .l I don't hate her but I won't ever like her I have to work with her but I won't conversate with her enough about things outside work.. So yeah she is a co worker but nothing more.

Hey if that is your form of hating someone.. Then I'm doing just that.. I don't really look at her and when she talks or when I answer her.. I don't try to look at her.. At all .. And whatever she says.. I take in half of the information and ask someone else.. Hey if you get told whe nthe full time position was up people with college background and 15 years on there belt.. Apply for the job because I I was interested I nthe beginning but when I heard their offer. I denied them ... CHEAP. So... Retaliation is taking place and so.. I'm not up for that.. Say what ever you want behind my back but don't treat me different and have me work doing.. All kinds of crap.. Got tired of it.

Aha, now i know your secret now...

I know when I am upset I am upset and it can be noticeable however... It takes me sometime to burn off steam.. I have to do something to get happy.. But yeah... Good to know that you don't let even the funny thins in life slow you down. :)

I was told that the battle isn't yours but it's Gods battle and sometimes it's better to let Od handle even the most simple things in life because he can handle it far more better then I can.. I fought many battles on my own and believe me most of the time it didn't end the way I wanted to. Feelings are hurt .. Etc I remember some old family friend I bought a car off him.. You build trust with People and they still ignorance in the relationship. Well yeah.. They stole basically 3000 dollars from me.. I decided to let God handle it even my own father wanted to go over there and fight him and get the money or even call the police and get the, involved .. I let GOD handle tha for me.. months later... Whole sale Shop garage place burn to the Ground.. It's Gone. So to me... People will get what's coming to them.. Andy just pray and pray and pray..

Yeah.. I work with a co worker of mines she is nice I'm not use to but, lol.. M manager is just fake no lie about that.. Lol.. And I won't let her get away with call me and talking to me the way she did I already called HR. and they called me back and I have return a phone.. Call.

Wow.. I'm not scared but,, wow I'm guessing that person has hurt you or has done something that just made you soooo upset and I can understand we are human and not perfect. I tend to hold a grunge against people for a long time.. And I do try to forgive them but it takes me sometime.. And .. I know I need to work on that because now I won't even look at my manager in the face. She better not look at me and be all fake because.. She is just,,,,,, ugh.l

I think the same.. Hey I know if I own my business.. Believe me.. It will be run much differently .. Things will actually be Fair.. And everyone will be treated the same.. @ my job.. The managers are .. Just horrible and they are a mess.. And not fair at all.. I honestly wish... Things could be different.. That changes my judgement of the whole job and sometimes I don't want to be there.

I can be the nicest person in the world.. But, I can say some mean things.. Believe me.. Most of the time I keep it to myself ... Because sometimes an exchange of words can get you in some deep trouble and.. Believe me I had a thing or 2 or 10 to say to my manager.. But I kept quite and smile.

Thank you for your advice but yeah, I will do so.. I will try my best to be nice to those who are mean to me.. I will never hate anyone however.. I won't allow someone to disrespect me and think they will just think its okay I will make sure to express how I feel but not a a angry way. How my manager spoke to me.. I made sure to keep my distance from her.. She is FAKE.