How does a heartbreak change your life? How does loving even affected you?

Ive had heartbreak. It doesnt make me scared to fall in love gain. Perhaps bcuz i break hearts all the time too. Im not a person who takes friendships very seriously. people move on in life and so must you. you cant tie someone to you if they dont want to. My advice to you- break some hearts yourself, you'll get over it in time.

I haven't had a boyfriend either. But i guess i was petrified by how fast paced some men are when it comes to pursuing a girl he likes and how quickly he comes out of the pursuit and shifts his interest to other girls. :)

I was in love with one man for four years who never loved me back, so I know a lot about having your heart broken in that way. You have to remember that you will get through it, and there are many people in the world who are going through much harder things in their lives and if they can manage to get through it then I am sure that you will be able to do the same. Heartbreak makes us learn a lot about ourselves, and I always say that it is not what happens to us that makes us who we are in our life, but it is how we choose to deal with those events.

I guess that most people had heartbreaks. I, too, was very disappointed in my first love. He always said that we were friends, that he did not wish a relationship at the moment, though he liked me very much. I overcame that very hard, it took a lot of time. But I always had the support of my friends, and that meant a lot, and helped a lot.

Hi CeresAnyah, did you try to asked him the reason why your bestfriends avoided you? Anyway, my first heart broken was when I was college. I love him so much but he betrayed me and it really hard for me to accept it. Because of the experienced I promised to myself that I will never love again because I am very afraid to get hurt over and over again. After we broke up I decided to start a new life in a new place where I can move on and make myself back into track. I meet a lot of friends in my new place and it really help me to heal the wound of my heart. Until one day I met a guy how is very charming, kind nad gentleman came into my life. He makes me happy and he taught me how to trust and love again. My promise was broken because I fell in love again but the good thing is, this man made me very happy and I love him so much more that anyone else. He is my dearest husband now and I am happilly married with him. Dont afraid to love again because you might found the right person for you when you open your heart to others. Love will help you to forget the pain of the past and brings joy in to your life. Hope that you will find the person who love you more than you do and will never let you cry.

Fear is one scary thing huh. I would understand and probably won't say anything if your fear is about someting else instead of love. But dear, do not be afraid of being in love again and do not be afraid of being hurt. Your next hurt won't hurt as much because your first experience have taught you a lesson and gave you experience. So anything that hurts you, if it's love,work,studies or even families, you know you can pick yourself up and move forward again. I was broken hearted in my previous relationship. Really love this girl. She is older than me and i thought we had it till the end of time or so i thought. It didn't happen. I was so sad, almost decided to run away from life, from everyone that i know. From people who really matter to me. But something happened, i get a sign, probably from GOD and it made me stop there and thought, what on earth am i doing. The story of realisation itself is kinda long so i guess i'll leave it out. Point is, i was scared, i had feared, i thought everything ends, but i was wrong. So 1 year 11 months from that moment, here i am telling you this story of mine. Part of it. Telling you that i will find love again and the next hurt won't hurt as much. Telling you that there will always be a light at the end of the tunnel and telling you that love always deserve a second chance. You yourself deserve a second chance.

There are many ways people can break your heart. It all feels the same. No matter if it's your partner, someone you were in love with, family, good friend (male or female) or your kid. The more you have to deal with it the more it will change you. It has to change you since if this happens frequently to you it is a sign you probably attract a certain kind of people or invest in the wrong way in other people or have other days about the relationship. So you have to learn your lesson, ask yourself how or what, where it went wrong, also you have to protect yourself. There are cases you will never get an answer. That happened to me too. There are questions that will never be answered. Give up on that accept it's the way it is and go on with your life. Don't let it be spoiled because of that.

well your fear is natural.. I will not say that this happens to everybody but yes this happens to almost everyone and people get scared to fall in love again and to face same king of heart break. this is very tough when you know that you are weak for someone and that person being aware of it give a damn to it.The problem is not with that person but the problem is with you that you have fallen for him or her and at the same time you are unable to get over him or her. yes i have faced this kind of heart break in my life and I too was afraid and scared to fall for anyone again, its just i did not find that kind of confidence within myself to love someone again with same heart.But my life have always proved to me that you are hurt today because you will be happy tomorrow, you have a heart break today to have a true love tomorrow. so this the truth that i have faced in my life and after that heart break i did find my true love and you know what you do not have to do anything it will come to you by itself.

Nothing to cling to as things changes ceaselessly.