Have you ever had a physical fight with your siblings.
By meumeu25
@meumeu25 (917)
United Arab Emirates
June 25, 2012 2:01pm CST
How did you feel afterwards?
I had ones with my sister it was a messy one. We end up having scratches on our neck and arms, thankfully none on our faces. While we were trying to kill each other ;P my hands stumbled on a knife. I was so terrified that in my anger, I might use that knife on her so I throw it away. And I stopped fighting back until she realised it.
Afterwards we just cried and cried without talking to each other. Then my father came with a very angry expression. He didn't say anything, he just stared on both of us very disappointed. I felt really awful and hurt emotionally. After that fight I promised to myself I will never ever do it again. It was our first and last physical fight and it made me love my sister more, even if she suffocates me sometimes for being impulsive and controlling. I had learned to give way and she learned the same I guess.
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9 responses
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
25 Jun 12
I used to fight my older sister who was 10 years older than me. When I was little she used to beat me up, but by age 13 I was strong enough to beat her. After a while I realized my strength was too much so I tried not to get into it with her, because I knew I would hurt her bad.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
26 Jun 12
Hey phillydreamer,
i just mostly used to have some quarrels with my sister for the tv's remote.
What were the reasons for having the quarrels between you both?
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
26 Jun 12
My sister thought she was big and bad, and tried to bully everyone.
@mg_omandam143 (18)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
Yeah, It's just happened last year when my older and I had physical fight. He kicked my back because he thought I just let his child got out. To think I'm busy doing something and to think his wife just watching television and didn't notice their child got out who was then that time 1 and half yrs old. I was so mad and hurt not just physically but also emotionally. Gosh, it was not my fault, my parents really got mad to my brother that time for hurting me physically. Right now, its not a big deal anymore, he was changed into a lovable brother and I'M thankful for that......
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
25 Jun 12
Wow, I cannot recall ever having got into a physical fight with my sister. I know there were times when we would hit each other if we were mad at one another, but it was usually one hit and I'm pretty sure my Mom was always quick to break us up afterwards and then we'd both be crying. She would make us sit in our little corners and think about what we'd done. 
Then we would have to apologize to one another. I think the last time anything like this happened, I was 13. Now we just skip to crying and thinking about what we'd done, then we apologize. 
Then we would have to apologize to one another. I think the last time anything like this happened, I was 13. Now we just skip to crying and thinking about what we'd done, then we apologize. @meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 12
Hi allyoftherain,
Good for you and your sis, my father usually do the same thing to us but by that time it was only me and my sis at home. That's why we had gone that far. And it was the only time my parents didn't say anything about it. Maybe they knew we had learned our lesson, finally. :)
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
As I remember, we don't have physical fight so far.We just used to joke around all time so we never had a serious fight.We just tease around.If my younger siblings has arguments or misunderstandings, I am always the one in the middle to stop as elder to them.Then they eventually stop and every thing will be alright and back to normal.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
26 Jun 12
Fights and quarrels are very common between me and my sister. We both used to find them for simple reasons, mostly for the TV's remote. We used to fight as well as quarrels mostly for this but now we are much grown up and we just used to adjust ourselves.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
26 Jun 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about your fighting activity. In my childhood days i had lot of fights with my siblings, after grown up we are helping each other and never thought about this kind of physical fights. Good to hear this fight changed your attitude and increased your affection with your sister
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
5 Jul 12
I'm so sorry that your fight with your sister became so violent. I was just making a discussion on how violence begets violence. I'm so glad that you threw the knife away. You could have killed your sister. It's best to just ignore her if she gets on your nerves. It takes two to fight, so if you don't fight back then she will quit also, I hope.. glad you did what you did to diffuse the situation.
@lifes97 (884)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 12
of course sure when i was seven year old alot we fight by hands but not after we grow up and learned life and science and everything, of course we do not fight by hands or anthing, we may have different opinions and get angry from each other but thats it
