sometimes I ask myself why?????

i never had. but i would like to try how it feels. but you know that is part of how complicated life is. we are being tested by God for some i-do-not-know reasons. but for me, i wouldn't involve myself because i am not that kind of a person who would involve myself in a trouble. get away from it. Maybe, God is still making the best love story for you . In God's perfect time, someone will come in your life, someone better than these guys.

Part of the problem is you are still getting involved with a married man. Whether a person is separated from their spouse or not does not negate the fact that that person made a lifetime commitment with someone. Kids make the situation even harder, because now you are putting yourself in the picture as the woman who is splitting up a happy home. I dated many married women when I was younger and I truly do think you get punished for doing that, because it shatters that security of marriage being sacred and eternal. End it with the guy and tell him when he can show you divorce papers you will consider taking him back, then go home and work on making yourself happy, because I think part of the problem is you may not feel happy as a single woman so you are settling for someone else's husband to stop being lonely. Then from there is you do decide to date you really need to make sure the guy is single. Once you find out he's separated from his wife, just say no way.

I guess, you are attracted to men who has a sense of obligation and matured. This is a problem when it come to love. We don't have any control on whom to love. and before we know it, we're in the middle of the mess and can't get away with it. Although I haven't experience what you are encountering today, I understand how you feel and you feeling that you are the least priority is natural. Maybe because you are, since the man you love have kids. Let's just have to face that the kids would weigh more importance than you. But if you really love the guy, and if you are sure enough that the guy feels the same way as you do, you at least have to understand and give way. Also, the guy should also do his best not to let you feel that way.

I guess I can relate too and understand what you are saying. It has seemed in the past that I would start to have feelings for an individual that I only wanted to be friends with or that at the time it wasn't the best time for us to start a relationship. It is a good thing for the person you are with to keep his children a priority. It would definitely be a hard thing to balance work, and three children along with a relationship. Hopefully with time he will be able to make you a priority in his life as well.

Umh...I have some rules: i don't be in friendships with ex-, i don't get in relationship with married man. With separated man, i have no idea, it is not a big problem if i fall in love with a separated man. I think you don't need to ask yourself why? simply it is a love and you can't control your love, you heart has its own thinking...as long as you are happy in love. Some separated men are really good in the next married because they have much experience about a marriage life and they know how to keep their next married life is stable. However, in here people told that, a man who just did divorced 1 time is a great man to get marry, a man who did divorced more than 2 times is not good to marry any more.

Oh, it is so interesting of you to fall in love with such man. Maybe for you the man who was separated and has kids is very mature and gental, always they know how to take care of you. It is very charming. But I don't have such experience like you.

My cousin too has problem in choosing her men. She had 3 relationships already and of all them are married. Of course, the men lied to her about their marriage. she also couldn't understand why she's attracted to such kind of men. So now, she's more choosy. And she make it point to know the man well. I guess, you can to that too. Choose your man carefully. I'm not really sure if a man with kids can make you as his top priority especially if his kids are still young.

I don't have any such experience but i can say if you like that person and that person also likes you and you both can live together and kids also have no problem with it then its ok...2 of you can change your life and live together forever but its risky though..because if kids don''t like you then there will be lots of problems and you may have to leave such relationship after some time...

Wow that is hard and risky angel, maybe it is time to stop and ask yourself why? i mean why do you go for these guys? or what makes you fall in love with them in the first place? maybe knowing these why's will let you know when to stop when it is happening again, it will be like a marker to tell yourself here it is happening again

I don't see anything wrong falling in love with a separated man with kids. What matters is, he is been honest to tell you his status. If you love him and he loves you then it's up to you if you are prepared to be with a separated and has kids. I haven't been in this situation, but if ever I met someone -as long as we love each other, then why not.

He has separated, not divorced yet?Do you know the reason he split?well..it is all up to you now.If you are not comfortable, just end it.. Me?so far never. Hope not LOL.

hi angel, I am not in the position to questioned your feelings towards this kind of men I had an admirers who is still living with his wife and kids, I also had who is still in a relationship or has a wife and kids but not living together. This all men are good almost perfect to be my significant one but for many reasons I can't be with one of them because I don't want to ruin anyone's relationship. I want to have a hassle-free and happy relationship though I found this men nice people, I still have my delicadeza on me but of course we are not all the same. maybe you fall them for a reasons like the song said We have the right love at the wrong time happy mylotting

That's why there is a saying that love is blind.So i think that's why so many people are confused about this word.Just make yourself happy and do not try to urge your own feelings.Just flow it and only with this,can you see whether you guys are meant to be.Hope this can help.

If you allow yourself to fall in love with a separated man, for sure it will happen. That is proven with your experience. Whatever that is happening in our life now is the result of our own decisions in life. So, for you to change it, you have to change your own thinking. If you already know that the person is separated and all the things that you don't want then be firm and just walk away. It's hard to get out in a relationship wherein your emotions are deeply attached to the person you love.

We can't help who we are attracted to, and there is always going to be that chance that we will be attracted to somebody who isn't all that good for us. It is quite a shame because there are so many good people out there who we could choose from, but there will always be those couple of choices that we wish we'd never made. However, you should just go with your heart because life's too short to miss out on chances to be happy. You never know, you may get with someone and realise that it's the best thing that you've ever done, so it is usually well worth a good try.