Do you agree with me?

Love is one of those emotions that are not so easily controlled. It's not like we can just shut that one off. It would be great if we could. But Love is a powerful emotion. And you're right, if you love someone it just happens. And if they don't feel the same about us, then there is nothing we could do to change that. It is what it is.

yes, I agree with you here. It happens. Perhaps the word might not be love at all, but infatuation? or Crush. It is difficult, as love is a thing that exists but we have no quantative way of measuring it's effects on us. You will probably continue to love her/him until you find the one you are meant for, and those feelings will probably die off, once you become absorbed in the world that is another person. I do believe that you are correct, we cannot stop ourselves from loving someone, we are extremely complex creatures, and so our wiring is not so forgiving of our desires as we would like it to be. I am a believer in reincarnation, and believe that such things exist. I believe that we have such feelings because that person was either a close family member, friend, or perhaps lover from a past life. this is why we feel such things. Reincarnation is not for everyone. I know this to be true, but I tend to see things in that aspect. Have a good day! Nice topic :)

I think love happens when the needs of the two get accomplished. Any relation is always between two or more than two persons. I think definition of love will vary from person to person. For me two person are in love if they like to stay together, they understand each other and they just love to spend the time together. They give equal importance to one another and understand how to make each other happy.

We always have a choice in life and loving someone in spite of knowing that a person cannot return it to us, is just a matter of our own choice. But it could be very painful for someone to love a person that doesn't even care for what we really feel. Love is a two-way street, soon your heart will get tired of it and lose your love for that person, so it won't last that long.

I agree. You can't control your feelings and heart. You may control your actions, you may act on your feelings or not, but feelings can't be killed or you can't make them vanish on purpose. Heart is a weirdly working thing :).

In my opinion, it depends on the person if he/she can stop himself/herself from loving someone. I myself had fallen in-love with this girl when I was in 7th grade I think I courted her for a year but for some reason we all have this gut feeling, I felt that she does not reciprocate with the attention and care I gave her, so their I tried to forget, not abruptly but in time I already forgotten her. So there you go, we all know that we are intellectual beings, so we know what is best for us.

Yes, I will agree with you. That's love and once it hits us we can't do nothing about it. But just like in any other games of life, you need to take the risk and tell that someone how you will or you'll forever regret not letting her know.

Yes, I totally agree that you can love someone and them not even knowing it. You can also love someone who does not love you back; things can change with someone you were in love with, and one of the partners falls out of love, this happens all the time. Loving someone who does not return the love is not a bad thing, unless you obsess over it, or you react negatively to what is termed Unrequited Love.

I agree that "falling in love" with someone happens naturally and it can't be forced. I also believe that if you feel you're in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way you're better off NOT spending time with that person. It's too painful to spend time with them if the love isn't received or returned.