i do need to learn my lesson
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13837)
Philippines
July 6, 2012 7:18pm CST
i know i have not learned my lesson well in life because i refused to not because i don't know to avoid it. but it is not easy to do the right thing in life. maybe soon i will have more will power to avoid the same mistakes. so i am hoping that i can have the strength to just accept life's lessons and deal with things as i should.
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9 responses
@dellessimon45 (710)
• United States
7 Jul 12
Life's all about learning lessons, my friend. This is how you will become stronger, more knowledgeable, and more experienced because you will be strengthened through your ups and downs. Something happens in life every second, every minute, every hour and its how we learn to react and cope with those events that make us a stronger person. So endure life's lessons, because learning and adjusting is how you will be able to live your life progressively.
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@smurfysmurf (651)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
We all need to learn from those mistakes. And with those lessons learn...we can gain knowledge from it and to never make the same mistake ever again. Those problems and challenges would definitely make us stronger and even give us the courage to accept life and to know how to go with the flow despite the hardship.
Life may indeed hard but we can definitely face it.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
We can always make mistake but what is important is we are learning from it. I admire you for admitting you don't learn your lesson yet. You will and that admission is the beginning. Acceptance is very important because its one way to happiness. Best of luck my friend.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
7 Jul 12
Hey shylade,
Accepting things whether you had done good or bad is a great mind. Only some of the people can gain and achieve them.
Life is full of lessons. They are countless. Hence we cannot learn every lessons of our life. We could only learn the lessons from our experiences. So try to experiences the ones with all your abilities.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
Many do not learn because they don't wanna learn. But this life has so much teach if only we know how to open our minds. Mistakes do happen but they are not meant to discourage us or to distract our growth but rather to teach us good lessons that will make us better person in the end.
@sjvg1976 (41277)
• Delhi, India
7 Jul 12
Hello Hotsummer,
It is indeed great that you realize it half of your problem is gone.Don't worry we get many things in day to learn so start it from today as there is no use of repenting for what happened in the past just think of present.Yes if we learn from our mistakes it makes us more stronger and help us not to repeat those/similar types of mistakes again in future.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
7 Jul 12
Life is a long journey with lots of thorns and dangers. The things are uncontrollable from us. We cannot do anything at them to prevent them. The only thing we can do is just to face them with all the courage inside you. When you tries to face them in your life we people get some lessons to handle our life smoothly. I hope you will be able to learn those lessons as fast as you can.
@upinurface (9)
• United States
7 Jul 12
Hey my friend I was their and only JESUS and HIS WORD changed me from going down the paths of destruction to a life or purpose, peace and hope. Check out 2 Timothy 3:16 and ask GOD to help make you into who HE wants you to be
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
I agree. Jesus is the only One who can really cause changed lives. Hold on to Him. "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength". 1 Corinthians 13:4
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
Nobody said it's easy. True it's a tough job to learn lessons. It's not easy to absorb. And pain isn't always enough for us to not commit the same mistake again. That's just ok. We only need to be always positive. Don't self-pity. Don't allow blame. Everything happens in its own time. Be patient with yourself and love yourself more.
@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
I do believe that mistakes are the ones that make you learn a lot. Don't avoid making them. If you avoid them, making mistakes will just haunt you down and you will not learn anything in life. Just try and explore and don't be afraid to commit mistakes every now and then. What you should avoid is doing the same mistake again and again because that is already stupidity. No one's perfect and everybody makes mistakes. But a successful person go head on with mistakes and is not afraid of mistakes. But of course, he learns from the mistakes that he makes. Hope you get my point.
@smurfysmurf (651)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
Hi there Hotsummer,
There are certain times in our lives that we tend to have a hard time to accept changes, realities or even our own mistake...most especially if it brings a crucial part in our lives. It is hard but we really need to learn how to accept it.
And we need to learn our lesson...and to not to commit that mistake again. I do think prayers helps a lot...in terms of guidance. We all need that...and also the presence of mind on not making the same mistake again.
Have a nice day!