why do people hurt me

I think thats called bullying. They may bully more often if you don't fight back. not litterally fight but to heard. Confront them just to stop so that they wouldnt hurt you anymore. Still you're just a happy go lucky person i think

I am proud of you for being strong dear. People may hurt you but you must stand up and show them like nothing happens. Maybe it will improve you as a person. Try to think also of the things that possibly you have done wrong. Maybe its your fault or something like that, if not then they don`t even deserve to call as a friend. Everything happens for a reason, it maybe unclear for now but sooner or later, you`ll be able to see it. I hope one day you can be happy with your true friends

Hi, Deb. I feel you. But, you know what? Sometimes, we simply just need to shrug them off. I mean, sometimes, we think the offense was really directed to us, but truth is, many people are simply careless and insensitive. They don't wanna bother being too careful not to hurt anyone with words or gestures. Don't think that they always mean to hurt you. I believe not everything is done intentionally. Unless they gossip about you or the likes. If they're talking to you in a sarcastic way, it could be they are naturally like that. I know many people who talk that way because they find it cute. So, set your worries aside and enjoy life!

I think that far too many of us take our friends for granted, and this can be one of the reasons that we tend to take advantage of the fact that they're there, and we often end up hurting them as a result of this. In order to be a good friend, you should always try to think about how you would feel if you were to have something done to you like the things that you have been doing to your friend. If you come to the conclusion that you don't like it, then your friend probably doesn't either so you should stop as you might be hurting or offending them.

Just be tough,my friend.Sometimes people just caring themselves and do not care what other people thinking.So they hurt.What you should do is take good care of yourself and love people who deserves you to care.Put a smile on your face and life continues.

Deb1454 Don't woory you just keep being you. No matter how many times some fool hurt you keep your head up and don't let anyone take away your self esteem ok. God has a hand in everything that go on in this world. What goes around comes right back around.....

deb those kind of people are bullies and they prey on those they think are weak. the next time your so called friend does or says something hurtful to you, do not just pray fight back. tell the b,i.t.ch that I will not let you say those things to me.Do you hear me?" Walk towards the person with a scowl, bullies are cowards and if you swing your arm with doubled fist she or he will likely run,smiling is fine but once you have given both cheeks, its time to hit back verbally or with your fist.

I am sorry to see ou in situations where people take advantage and hurt you. it is not fair to go through life that. You should find a way to fet more self confidence and stand up for yourself when others hurt you. You should not have to sit on the sidelines and take the abuse. You are more deserving of a person that that.

I'm so sorry, maybe you are a sensitive person and most are so into their own needs and thoughts that we are going through yet a very selfish era, people or most of we humans don't pay attention if the other ones are needing something.