Not meant to be... but worth a try?

@chiyosan (30183)
Philippines
July 10, 2012 9:57pm CST
Not everything in life is indeed meant to happen. One's successful business becoming a name in the industry he chose, a famous rapper, actors or actresses... and many other success stories. Many have tried.. auditions, failed businesses, bankrupt.. even courtship.. Not everything is meant to be... but everything is worth a try, right? Have you ever been torn in a decision making scenario and you have to think of what you must or must not do.. then you'd give it a try anyway. i believe that when we dreamed of something, we want it.. we should at least try our best and pursue it... what about you?
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
11 Jul 12
I as well think that we should give our goals a try. After all if we don't try we will never know and will more than likely have regrets. It is hard at times to step outside of our comfort zone. But that does become necessary when we want to accomplish our goals.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Hi dominique, yes it is the right thing when you want something.. try and know if it fits you. =) i guess it is really important even if it was not meant to be yours, then at least as you have said... you won't have regrets.
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• United States
12 Jul 12
Yeah it's not good to go through life with a lot of regrets. Then we look back and always think what if. And we will not be able to get the answer since we didn't try when we should have. And that often leaves people disappointed.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
thats true. When we often wonder about what could have been in our lives... We would most likely be disappointed... Yes thats right
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Even it is not meant to be, being able to have the initiative, effort and perseverance to do something in able to reach a certain goal is by itself an accomplishment that would surely reflect an outstanding personality trait worthy of appreciation and admiration.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Yes, of course when we give our effort and best in one thing that we do for sure something will come out of is, may it be a lesson or not the result we expected, we grow each time...
@akash009 (452)
• India
12 Jul 12
hello, sure my friend. We should at least give it a try or how else we will know whether it is for us or not. We should try to do what we really want from our heart. This is the only way we will get to know whether we are capable enough or not. if it is not meant to be then so be it. There's no harm in it. Everyone fails in their life. Failure is the pillar of success. We need to give a try to everything. that should be the motto of our life.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
yes it is almost alays what allpeople would want to do... Give it a shot and tjen decide as to how we can go on with the rest of everything that needs to be done in a situation... Or about the dream wr are trying to achieve.
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
I agree with you that everything is worth a try. just try and try until you succeed.God may not give us to the time we want it to happen but surely he had better plans for us just don't be scared to try it.It's not about the chance but the choice we made.If we want to be successful don't just sit there and wait you have to take action on it!I believe that in Gods time we will be successful just do you best and god will do the rest!
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
thats is absolutrly right. We cannpt expect to find and fulfill our dreams without actions.
@doccerz (46)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
In my opinion, there are things that are worth to try while there are also those that are not. If the chance of success is almost nil, it will only be a waste of time and resources, no matter how much you really want it. You might be passing up on other chances while you're busy pursuing the unattainable.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
good point doccerz. I guess though it can be a case to case basis. Sometimes we should really do something at least to know whether one dream we want to do is worth the try... Still a few stps have to be taken. thank you... Godbless=)
@tri_0217 (101)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
They say that the first step to success is trying. You won't win a game if you don't play. You won't get anywhere if you don't move. So just do it. failure is part of everything. But it doesn't mean that it is the end. The real secret of winners is not about never failing, but standing every time they fall.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
Yes, i guess that is true... we do need to be able to know how to try and start something before we even know for sure if we are to be successful or not...
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
To be able to attain something of want or need, an effort is required and it all starts with trying. I have been through some trials that are really worth it. Just recently, I was scared of re-applying entrance to the university, but after gathering enough courage I went and tried. Now, I am attending an official student again, enrolled to the same course which I want to finish. If I hadn't tried and gave in to my fear, I know I might regret it someday.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
thats right, choybel... We need to really need to be able to go through our fears and then we shal be able to see whats beyond the things we are already accustomed to.
• Bangladesh
11 Jul 12
As long as we are alive, we are to try, be it work or not. We can minimize our errors by trying again and again and at last we'll succeed.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
that's right. =) we ought to be persistent with what we want.. =)