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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

I just thought of the discussion, ha ha well it was about a few days ago that i have managed to gather up strenght and courage, if you may call it that to erase all the photos of me and my ex boyfriend(who happened to cheat on...

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doccerz You don't really move on from the person. You move on from the circumstances, the events... And I believe you have already moved on. And it's only a matter of personal preference why you have deleted those pictures. I would've kept those, but that's just...

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Okay so i am a bit thinking about this a whole lot of times lately, when i am not busy with work and stuffs, haha. I recently have had 3 people tell me and asking me out for a date, or a time to get to know each other, not to...

dating

getting to know people

suitors

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doccerz I think it's ok. It balances your psyche and you won't end up getting compulsive. And you also get to see their flaws than when you're just letting one person through. It's not unfair if you still draw a line for all of them. And I think it's the same for...

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Just another discussion brought about by my own experience, or feelings. I know and i feel that we can move on from something or someone... but to say that we have completely moved on is another thing. Like, a perfect example is...

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doccerz When a love dies, there are parts of it that live on. I think, you'll always love the person in a I-used-to-like-him/her-a-lot kind of way. But it doesn't mean you have not moved in. You just sort of remember. :)

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 27 Aug 12

How would you react or how do you deal with being disappointed with people or a person whom you sort of put your "faith into"? There are really a lot of things we say, or do and then sometimes even if we do not mean it we tend...

expectations

handling disappointments

people

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doccerz I have this friend who used to cheer for me. But lately she's been doing things that are detrimental to my cause. It blows. What she did was not wrong. Maybe at some point she stopped believing in it. And she's well within her rights to do it. But I was...

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seiya87 @seiya87 (16) • Philippines 22 Jul 12

Some say that watching movies when you recently got your heart broken would help you to move on faster. I don't know if it's true, but do you guys agree with it? if you do, please give me some movie suggestions. Thanks.

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doccerz if you want to divert your attention from your broken heart by watching a movie, don't go watching romantic ones. try action and comedy. and be sure to watch it with your friends. it sets your mood right and lessens the chemical imbalance which causes your...

23 Jul 12

p3halliwel2005 @p3halliwel2005 (3156) • Philippines 21 Jul 12

I love music. It has been part of my teenage life and now I'm an adult music from my genre is what I love to listen to until now. I grew up with the music a lot. When I was young my sister would play her guitar and we will sing...

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doccerz Hi. I, too, am a big fan of music. I have a wide range of genre: from classical to modern, ballads to rock, musicals, novelties, etc. And, yes, we'll probably think that the music that we listen to while we were growing up as the best ones. It's because those...

21 Jul 12

cougartown @cougartown (125) 21 Jul 12

That´s a very simple question. Will you acept to have a date with a friend even if you know he´s a womanizer? I have a friend that wants to have a date with me, but I´m not very sure about it, I knew him since 2008 in my...

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doccerz Play hard-to-get, love. Do not accept the date invitation. Tell him you have other plans but tease him a little bit. Then, wait and see. If he's really serious about you then he'll pursue you still. I'm not saying you should play the flirting game. I just want...

21 Jul 12

Resy King @resy21curapika (2131) • Pasay, Philippines 15 Jul 12

My friend is going out of the country for good. She's staying with her fiance somewhere in Europe but the fun part here is I can't make it in the farewell party as my best friend specifically called me to ask if I can go for her....

great

nice to be back

return of the comeback

winback

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doccerz If I were in your place, I'd move all my other appointments. She'll be my priority for that day. That's because I value my friends and myself more than my job. To each his own, though. :)

15 Jul 12

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 10 Jul 12

Not everything in life is indeed meant to happen. One's successful business becoming a name in the industry he chose, a famous rapper, actors or actresses... and many other success stories. Many have tried.. auditions, failed...

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doccerz In my opinion, there are things that are worth to try while there are also those that are not. If the chance of success is almost nil, it will only be a waste of time and resources, no matter how much you really want it. You might be passing up on other...

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Jess @JJ4Ever (4693) • United States 8 Jul 12

My husband tells me that one of his biggest pet peeves is when he opens the door for a lady, and she walks through without saying, "Thank you." He always opens the doors for me and other ladies when the opportunity arises. I...

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doccerz Hi, JJ4ever. I'm a guy and I also open doors for ladies. It's ok if no thank you's were offered. It just feels good to be courteous. Plus, it helps in shaping our character. :)

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 7 Jul 12

To all those who are knowledgeable with the bible, or with their faith.. Can you help with this? According to the what i have learned all are born sinners... right? So therefore it was said that even babies newly born have...

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doccerz I've asked that same question before when I was still a practicing Christian. I think there's a verse in the Bible (somewhere in Deuteronomy) that indicates that babies will still enter heaven because they have no knowledge of good and evil yet. And I believe...

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doccerz @doccerz (46) • Philippines 7 Jul 12

I've been trying to finish a book that was recommended by a friend. It was a good book actually. But I've also been having a hard time due to me being sleepy while reading. It's not boring or anything. Maybe I just need a lot of...

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tired

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

I have always been so lucky with my employers that i have never experienced them trying to show me im less my worth in the workplace. I have noticed this with my older brother as he tells my mom about his current employer that his...

employee

mean employers

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doccerz I'm also glad that your brother will be out of that company soon. There really are those kind of people but I believe they will suffer the consequences sooner or later. After all, what we are and what we will become are the products of our character. :)

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cyclonewriter @cyclonewriter (2168) • United States 5 Jul 12

I had a best friend in high school and we had a big falling out. It was heartbreaking, but as teenagers do, we both moved on. I will admit that the falling out was mostly my doing although I wasn't being malicious at the time....

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doccerz That's a great story, CycloneWriter. It hits home. I also had a friend way back in high school. We parted ways when we were in college because we went to different schools and then he suddenly eloped with his would-be wife. Years have passed before I...

7 Jul 12

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 5 Jul 12

I was on the phone today with an old friend that I grew up with. I sat there and during the conversation I couldn't help but think "Why the heck am I still friends with this person?" I think I am in the habit of...

friends

future

past

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doccerz But despite that, is she a good friend still? There will be times when you will be asked, "Are you really friend with that person?" The key is to try to look past the obvious flaw and think of the reason why you guys are friends. I have friends who are cruel,...

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chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

I have always been so lucky with my employers that i have never experienced them trying to show me im less my worth in the workplace. I have noticed this with my older brother as he tells my mom about his current employer that his...

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doccerz My first job was very much like this. He even showed us a video presentation about the hunger problem in Africa to point out that we're actually "lucky". And every time a person resigns he'll say that the person is being ungrateful -- as if the person didn't...

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doccerz @doccerz (46) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

I'm just wondering why there are things that we want so bad that we get pissed off whenever we fail at getting them... Even though there are also things that we also want but it won't drive us nuts if we don't acquire them.

wanting

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doccerz hi, bhebelen. thanks for your comment. :) yes, we usually learn a lot from these things. maybe because there's too much energy spent that whenever we reflect on what happened we try to become a better person to prepare ourselves for the next.

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doccerz @doccerz (46) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

I'm just wondering why there are things that we want so bad that we get pissed off whenever we fail at getting them... Even though there are also things that we also want but it won't drive us nuts if we don't acquire them.

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doccerz i agree, chiyosan... but again, there are also things that we want on equal level that doesn't get us pissed off whenever we don't get them. i'm trying to identify what's the difference between those 2 cases. thanks for the input. happy weekend! :)

6 Jul 12

shylade @shylade (3132) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

It's already late night here and I'm still here at mylot. I actually had a long busy day. For me, Friday is the most stressful day before I have to checks reports and send them to all concerned people. Adding to my work today are...

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doccerz Fridays are also my busy day. But I feel more stressed-out during other weekdays. Maybe because I'm looking forward to resting that's why I feel relaxed during Fridays and I'm also able to do more things than usual. You've got a very productive day, though....

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doccerz @doccerz (46) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

I'm just wondering why there are things that we want so bad that we get pissed off whenever we fail at getting them... Even though there are also things that we also want but it won't drive us nuts if we don't acquire them.

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