doccerz

@doccerz (46)

Philippines • Age 40

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Do you still keep pictures and things from your ex?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

I just thought of the discussion, ha ha well it was about a few days ago that i have managed to gather up strenght and courage, if you may call it that to erase all the photos of me and my ex boyfriend(who happened to cheat on...

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doccerz You don't really move on from the person. You move on from the circumstances, the events... And I believe you have already moved on. And it's only a matter of personal preference why you have deleted those pictures. I would've kept those, but that's just...

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On Dating, getting to know the guys...

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Okay so i am a bit thinking about this a whole lot of times lately, when i am not busy with work and stuffs, haha. I recently have had 3 people tell me and asking me out for a date, or a time to get to know each other, not to...

dating

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suitors

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doccerz I think it's ok. It balances your psyche and you won't end up getting compulsive. And you also get to see their flaws than when you're just letting one person through. It's not unfair if you still draw a line for all of them. And I think it's the same for...

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Do we really move on from something/someone completely?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Just another discussion brought about by my own experience, or feelings. I know and i feel that we can move on from something or someone... but to say that we have completely moved on is another thing. Like, a perfect example is...

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doccerz When a love dies, there are parts of it that live on. I think, you'll always love the person in a I-used-to-like-him/her-a-lot kind of way. But it doesn't mean you have not moved in. You just sort of remember. :)

14 Sep 12

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When people disappoint you...

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 27 Aug 12

How would you react or how do you deal with being disappointed with people or a person whom you sort of put your "faith into"? There are really a lot of things we say, or do and then sometimes even if we do not mean it we tend...

expectations

handling disappointments

people

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doccerz I have this friend who used to cheer for me. But lately she's been doing things that are detrimental to my cause. It blows. What she did was not wrong. Maybe at some point she stopped believing in it. And she's well within her rights to do it. But I was...

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Movies to watch when you're heartbroken

seiya87 @seiya87 (16) • Philippines 22 Jul 12

Some say that watching movies when you recently got your heart broken would help you to move on faster. I don't know if it's true, but do you guys agree with it? if you do, please give me some movie suggestions. Thanks.

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doccerz if you want to divert your attention from your broken heart by watching a movie, don't go watching romantic ones. try action and comedy. and be sure to watch it with your friends. it sets your mood right and lessens the chemical imbalance which causes your...

23 Jul 12

What type of music do you like?

p3halliwel2005 @p3halliwel2005 (3156) • Philippines 21 Jul 12

I love music. It has been part of my teenage life and now I'm an adult music from my genre is what I love to listen to until now. I grew up with the music a lot. When I was young my sister would play her guitar and we will sing...

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doccerz Hi. I, too, am a big fan of music. I have a wide range of genre: from classical to modern, ballads to rock, musicals, novelties, etc. And, yes, we'll probably think that the music that we listen to while we were growing up as the best ones. It's because those...

21 Jul 12

Will you acept to have a date with a friend even if you know he´s a womanizer?

cougartown @cougartown (125) 21 Jul 12

That´s a very simple question. Will you acept to have a date with a friend even if you know he´s a womanizer? I have a friend that wants to have a date with me, but I´m not very sure about it, I knew him since 2008 in my...

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doccerz Play hard-to-get, love. Do not accept the date invitation. Tell him you have other plans but tease him a little bit. Then, wait and see. If he's really serious about you then he'll pursue you still. I'm not saying you should play the flirting game. I just want...

21 Jul 12

Am I to selfish for my friend?

Resy King @resy21curapika (2131) • Pasay, Philippines 15 Jul 12

My friend is going out of the country for good. She's staying with her fiance somewhere in Europe but the fun part here is I can't make it in the farewell party as my best friend specifically called me to ask if I can go for her....

great

nice to be back

return of the comeback

winback

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doccerz If I were in your place, I'd move all my other appointments. She'll be my priority for that day. That's because I value my friends and myself more than my job. To each his own, though. :)

15 Jul 12

Not meant to be... but worth a try?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 10 Jul 12

Not everything in life is indeed meant to happen. One's successful business becoming a name in the industry he chose, a famous rapper, actors or actresses... and many other success stories. Many have tried.. auditions, failed...

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doccerz In my opinion, there are things that are worth to try while there are also those that are not. If the chance of success is almost nil, it will only be a waste of time and resources, no matter how much you really want it. You might be passing up on other...

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Are you going to thank me?

Jess @JJ4Ever (4693) • United States 8 Jul 12

My husband tells me that one of his biggest pet peeves is when he opens the door for a lady, and she walks through without saying, "Thank you." He always opens the doors for me and other ladies when the opportunity arises. I...

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doccerz Hi, JJ4ever. I'm a guy and I also open doors for ladies. It's ok if no thank you's were offered. It just feels good to be courteous. Plus, it helps in shaping our character. :)

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For all are sinners, so even new born babies are sinners... ???

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 7 Jul 12

To all those who are knowledgeable with the bible, or with their faith.. Can you help with this? According to the what i have learned all are born sinners... right? So therefore it was said that even babies newly born have...

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doccerz I've asked that same question before when I was still a practicing Christian. I think there's a verse in the Bible (somewhere in Deuteronomy) that indicates that babies will still enter heaven because they have no knowledge of good and evil yet. And I believe...

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Reuniting after 15 years...

cyclonewriter @cyclonewriter (2168) • United States 5 Jul 12

I had a best friend in high school and we had a big falling out. It was heartbreaking, but as teenagers do, we both moved on. I will admit that the falling out was mostly my doing although I wasn't being malicious at the time....

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doccerz That's a great story, CycloneWriter. It hits home. I also had a friend way back in high school. We parted ways when we were in college because we went to different schools and then he suddenly eloped with his would-be wife. Years have passed before I...

7 Jul 12

Have you ever thought WTH?

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 5 Jul 12

I was on the phone today with an old friend that I grew up with. I sat there and during the conversation I couldn't help but think "Why the heck am I still friends with this person?" I think I am in the habit of...

friends

future

past

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doccerz But despite that, is she a good friend still? There will be times when you will be asked, "Are you really friend with that person?" The key is to try to look past the obvious flaw and think of the reason why you guys are friends. I have friends who are cruel,...

7 Jul 12

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Why are some employers mean?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

I have always been so lucky with my employers that i have never experienced them trying to show me im less my worth in the workplace. I have noticed this with my older brother as he tells my mom about his current employer that his...

employee

mean employers

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doccerz My first job was very much like this. He even showed us a video presentation about the hunger problem in Africa to point out that we're actually "lucky". And every time a person resigns he'll say that the person is being ungrateful -- as if the person didn't...

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I had a long busy day

shylade @shylade (3132) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

It's already late night here and I'm still here at mylot. I actually had a long busy day. For me, Friday is the most stressful day before I have to checks reports and send them to all concerned people. Adding to my work today are...

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doccerz Fridays are also my busy day. But I feel more stressed-out during other weekdays. Maybe because I'm looking forward to resting that's why I feel relaxed during Fridays and I'm also able to do more things than usual. You've got a very productive day, though....

6 Jul 12

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Drowning in Love... I feel this is so True!

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

Ever heard of the song by Backstreet boys - Drowning? I really feel the depth of this song and appreciate it so much i thought how can one person have this feeling for another.. and yet I feel the sincerity and the truth in it......

backstreet boys

drowning

love

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doccerz I think most of us go through this phase at least once in our lifetime. We become compulsive once the chemical imbalances sets in. It's hard to stay in control, unless you've already been through a similar situation. But eventually, everything will be okay....

6 Jul 12

She will graduate...At Last!

asdomencil @asdomencil (4265) • Philippines 3 Apr 12

My sister got pregnant and married at young age (19-years old). Due to her sensitivity in pregnancy, she stopped her school for a year and continued after giving birth. Going back to the course she taken (BS Elementary Education),...

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doccerz Good for her. Some girls in the same situation would just stop schooling and never go back to it. Extend my congratulations to her for graduating despite of having other responsibilities. And congratulations to you, too, for having a sensible sister.

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Traveling : train vs bus

vertu007 @vertu007 (683) • Romania 29 Mar 12

Today I'm leaving for the capital of my country. I want to participate in a job fair and it's about 350 km away. I can go either by bus or train, but I like to travel by train although it digs more into my pocket because on the...

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doccerz It depends on the location, actually. Because in my case, I prefer train rides when I'm in the city but I'd go with bus if it's a trip within, to or from the province. But if I were to travel in European countries, I'd love to travel on trains.

29 Mar 12

I hate my course

effinmuffin @effinmuffin (191) • Philippines 28 Mar 12

i am a 2nd yr college student, taking up Accounting Technology and a scholar. I didn't choose that course personally but my parents is. I am starting to have a hard time due to my scholarship. Last semester, i was out by the...

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doccerz Do tell them. Otherwise, you'll be hating the years that you're gonna spend in college. And it's not too late. You're only in your 2nd year, doll. You're probably taking up majority of the basic subjects, still, and those will be credited once you shifted...

28 Mar 12

totally shocking...a girl loves a boy whom she has never met!?!?

salma07 @salma07 (639) • India 28 Mar 12

Hi Is this even possible, is this for real, has anybody gone through this crazy phase of life? Well a friend of mine,she is this nice girl, good looking and could get a boyfriend if she goes for it, but she hasn't really dated...

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doccerz Tell her to get ready for it. She might or might not like the guy after meeting up. "Love" is after all just an emotion. It is similar to just liking someone online as a friend. Then after meeting up, there's a big chance that you might not like him in...

28 Mar 12