When people disappoint you...

Disappointing .. well ... It`s a part of life .However you look at it.. .There are some relationships that don`t suffer disappointing and end up very sadly . Sometimes it`s just happens and it`s nothing you can do about it .To give an example ,when you change your ways .. some people will be proud of you ..and some disappointed .In life you can`t act just perfect ,it happens that you do things you could never think of ... sometimes life throws you in very harsh situations which is hard to handle with ,and get to disappoint peoples .When people disappoint me .I don`t know i`m just upset for a moment and then try to forget ,maybe it`s because I get used to it . Life isn`t perfect , peoples who are friends and relatives aren`t perfect .. Nothing is perfect :) ..

Being disappointed is part of life. It is just a matter on how to deal with it. If you have disappointed another person, you should do your best to earn the trust and promise to be a better person. If someone has disappointed you, try to look for the real reason why it happened. A good talk would be best.

The same thing my parents done when I disappoint them. I have learned from them to let failures of lives disappoint us. Much better if we see these failures as a challenge to us to perform well. Not all people had succeed on their first try. And if we let failures to ruin everything, that that would really be the time to get disappointing. My kids sometimes disappoint me when they have low scores on the test. but, instead of scolding them or grounding them, I analyze why they failed on the test. If I am able to know the cause, then I can make some actions to avoid it in the future.

For dealing with the disappointment, i always try to speak out to my parents and find some other ways to make myself released. This is really important that we know how to deal with ourselves. Just be happy and smile, this will bring us good luck.

I try to remind myself that they probably have things going on in their lives that I am not aware of and they are doing the best they can. They also cannot read our minds and maybe we should ask ourselves, why we were expecting a certain action or outcome. Are our expectations realistic our just a manifestation of our point of view. I try to look for the good in people and if for some reasons I am disappointed I remind myself that I too, am far from perfect.

Things that we don't want to happen will happen at times. Just like with life, people will sometimes act in a way that might disappoint us. Of course, we can also disappoint others. When disappointment comes your way, you try not to dwell on such trivial matters. Whether you are feeling disappointed in others or they are disappointed in you, you should just try to do your best to resolve the problem. If it cannot be resolved, then just forget about it and move on. Everyone makes mistakes and flaws are what make us human. We just need to acknowledge mistakes are made and lessons are learned from those mistakes.

There's a way that I deal with it, but it may not be the best. I do my best not to have to ask anyone for anything that would be crucial. I have been let down by family and friends so many times, that I do everything in my power not to be put in that position to need them. This doesn't mean that I don't ask them for things, or even that I am never disappointed because it still happens. But doing everything in my power to get things done does mean that I don't have to ask as often, and as such, am not disappointed as often when they don't come through for me.

We're human and we are not perfect. Even the righteous commit mistakes. So, we should not always look too much to anyone. If someone we admire a lot commit mistakes we may feel disappointed, it is normal. but, it is not enough reason to stop believing in them. We can always give them a second chance. So, when we commit mistakes too- they will forgive us and give us another chance as well.

We may try to talk to them and let them know, those people that we put our faith into. In that way, they may think about their actions and to make them realize that they made something negative to us or to others. In that way, they may correct their actions next time or be better the next time around. I will be at peace with everybody to unload those hard feelings to someone, I will do my best to attain that. Thanks

For me i have disappointed my family when I do the job that I really wanted to do but hten again when I think of the positive thins that would be the outcome of the things that I have decided to do then I guess having faith in what I believe in is best for me and that someday they will be proud of me is the only thing that holds me against the guilty feeling.

yeah try not to expect things from others. I also have expecting things from others and when you expect things from others you get disappointed most of the time. So to avoid getting hurt please try to stop expecting. I know it is hard but you will able to do it. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead

I don't keep grudges with people who disappoints me. Life will not end there, it takes time for the people to get what I wanted. We just need to be patient.

Well,I have a rule of thumb.To make the best decisions,every time figure out the solution for the worst scenario.Then,you are all set in solving every problem. I sometimes get disappointed by something or someone,but I never,and I mean never would want to do something bad to that person.I would act normally. I would feel very sorry if I disappointed someone,though.It makes me feel that he gave me trust,and I didn't take it seriously enough. I hope that this could help you.

hi everyone will meet those things.to be honest there do exsit some people that once said that they were diaappoint to me and i feel so sad then.but no one could be perfect and good at everything. i was so sad those days but i think it over,and try my best to change my fault.now our relation is as good as before. we always have room for improvement

I read something today that said, "do not allow yourself to get attached to people, you'll only get disappointed." The more we get attached to others, the more we expect from them and we get disappointed in the end. So I think we shouldn't expect much. But there are disappointments that are brought about by trust issues and they are different. I get mad when people disappoint me and I tend to lose my trust easily.

my dear friend, it has happened to me on several occasions,but it has taught me to be strong and never ever keep affection and trust on them anymore

Well, i was disappointed with my ex- and what i did, for sure i was sad but i just tired ignore all things that is related to him and think positive. Tomorrow will be better than today!!!

Hi Chiyosan (your name reminds me of the character from Memoirs of a Geisha movie- I really loved that movie!) I have been disappointed so many times by people that Ive sorta come to expect it. But sometimes when people disappoint you, they cant help it- its not out of spite or ill will, it just happens. And there are many situations where I too have disappointed other people. So I forgive them and move on. You cant hold grudges against people.

I have this friend who used to cheer for me. But lately she's been doing things that are detrimental to my cause. It blows. What she did was not wrong. Maybe at some point she stopped believing in it. And she's well within her rights to do it. But I was disappointed still. And it does hurt a lot. But friends, at some point, will disappoint you. That's a reality. You deal with it the way you deal with other inevitable things: suck it up. Eventually, everything will be okay. And when you can finally say the words, talk. That's what friends do. :)

i really feel bad when i get betrayed by people whom i trusted so much. nwadays many people have gone commercial they are just living for their existence but none of them are valuing people or emotions or life. i really faced such situations with many of my friends where they betrayed me in most trusted conditions or taking ill of me in the public without my knowledge. i just stop taking to them its waste of arguing or fighting with such ppl or asking them y they hav done all this? its bettr to stop taking to them and if we were really true there will b one day they ll realise and come and talk to us.