I'm Not Good at Lying

@shello (964)
United Arab Emirates
July 19, 2012 4:57am CST
Earlier, we were taking some videos about a project that would help promote free education for those unprivileged children in the remote parts of the world. We took like four videos using my mobile. When we were done, I took my mobile back to my office and extracted the videos. And when I played them, the audio quality is actually bad. So I went back to the project coordinator's office and showed the videos to his secretary. We've played the video and there's some kind of a delay in the audio, aside from the fact that it is very low and we could not even hear anything. Then, the secretary told me that it's not good and it's not good to be published. And I said, yes. Then she said that when the coordinator would ask me about it, I'll just have to tell him that the videos were corrupted. She said that if I'm going to tell him that it's not good he would still push for that video to be uploaded. So, I said yes again. After few minutes, I met the coordinator in the lobby and asked me about those videos. At first I told him that it was corrupted as agreed with the secretary. He did asked me again and again. And then he told me,"You did something." and I said I did not do anything and it was just corrupted. But he kept on pushing me that I really did something. I was a bit upset and guilty though, after few minutes, I told the secretary to tell him the truth about the video. She was really reluctant to do it and I said that the videos were not corrupted but it's not good for publishing. The coordinator was really taken aback upon knowing that we lied to him and he said that how could he trust her secretary after what had happened. I was really guilty and sad about what had happened. She was a bit mad at me because I told his boss the truth. It's like I left her alone in mid-air. But, I think I did what is just right. I cannot stand there allowing his boss pushing me and thinking that I really did something to corrupt those videos. Well, I don't know but I'm not happy either of what had just happened.
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6 responses
@Nimari1 (10)
• United States
19 Jul 12
It's good that you ended up telling the truth. Lying only leads to more lying to cover up your first lie, and a guilty conscience. You should not feel bad about telling the truth. I'm not sure why the secretary didn't want to tell the truth in the first place. Apparently she has been lying to her boss for some time. At least her boss knows that you can be trusted. I would rather have someone who I know tells the truth in my corner.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Jul 12
Yeah. I was just sad because it seems that I put her in a bad position. I don't want her to be in trouble. But see, we are professionals and I realized that the coordinator would not even dare to publish something that would ruin the reputation of the project. Right? So no matter how that videos would look, it is still his call to upload it or not.
@Shavkat (139937)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
Telling a lie is a forbidden thing to do, referring from the list of ten commandments. But then, it is a matter of choice if we are going to do intentionally. If it will be done in this manner, then you should be strong enough to deal with the consequences. We don't have the power to turn back the time, this situation will serve as a learning insights of how to deal with the same scenario.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Jul 12
You are right. I should have said no, in the first place.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
20 Jul 12
Me too, i am not good at lying just like you, it is so easy for someone to know that i am telling him a lie, as though like he can see it portray on my face like my nose is getting longer or some words appear on my forehead suddenly saying i am a liar. I usually will not go along with any lies someone want to use to mislead or confuse other people no matter she is a secretary of my boss or his mother. I will go ahead to tell the truth without broken the trust anyone has on me, especially with my co-workers and friends, even it means he /she will not be happy at the truth. If that is the case, so be it!
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
19 Jul 12
Do not be sad. You have to correct your lie. You have been telling the truth. Never mind the risk to the person who lied. Truth is expensive. Great if you could have it.
• India
20 Jul 12
Dont worry. Be happy :)
@margiegay (158)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
lying is not bad at all, since there is a different way how to do it and it is called --- white lie. if the lie benefits you then let nobody know it or if you like let there be someone that you trust the most.