Me, Myself and I....

@Shavkat (138852)
Philippines
July 20, 2012 12:21am CST
Why do people had this kind of egoistic personality? that is, "me... myself and I". I have some friends showed a self-centered attitudes, in times you will feel annoyed about it. If there is some activities and it was successful, these people will go up front and boosting that they were the one made it possible. How pathetic to do such move? The course of action, try to understand that some people acted and born this way. In some point, ignore the real facts about dealing with this kind of people.
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@syoti20 (5292)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
People is created in unique way possible. You have to embrace all the aspect of their lives if you like to know them well. Not all egoistic person is bad at all. I was able to encountered this kind of people. What I dislike in having a friend who are so friendly yet they are back fighter. I prepare egoistic people rather than a back stabber. They may tend to brag all the things they have but they never stab you at the back. This is for me.
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• Perth, Australia
30 Nov 17
@syoti20 I agree! I don't like the ones who treat you badly behind your back. It's very disappointing when you hear about someone who you thought was a good friend being disrespectful towards you.
@Shavkat (138852)
• Philippines
30 Nov 17
@syoti20 You have a point. I do think that some loud people show the real them than other who back fight.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
30 Nov 17
@Shavkat oh man I don't really like being in the company of people like that. My ex boyfriend was pretty much like that. He thought the world of himself and was mainly looking out for just him not caring how his actions would bother other people. I don't mind at all hearing stories of what people have to tell about themself but if that's all they talk about and always boasting about how good they are then I start to get very bored.
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@Shavkat (138852)
• Philippines
30 Nov 17
I agree. The feeling is mutual. It is so annoying dealing with these people.
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@Shavkat (138852)
• Philippines
1 Dec 17
@VivaLaDani13 I do agree with you. There is no second chance to deal with them if I felt being annoyed.
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• Perth, Australia
30 Nov 17
@Shavkat I try to keep away from these people.
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@Jotomy (6322)
• India
20 Jul 12
Hi shavkat, Most of the people are egoistic persons as far as my knowledge is concern. They feel so superior than others, some people will think they only can do some works and no one else. Because he/she has done that work it got completed, they think others are just waste they doesn't know anything. Always they under estimate others.
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@Shavkat (138852)
• Philippines
30 Nov 17
I felt so irritating to see these people, especially at work. As for me, nobody can interrupt if I am in the process of working something in my workstation.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
20 Jul 12
Like you said,some people is indeed self-centered and always put themselves in the first.What we can really do is to ignore that and be real you.To make friends with whom you like and be happy,isn't it? Not everybody is meant to be friends.lol
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
Well, almost all people had those problems even if we do not consciously feel it. The problem arouses when we feel so much confidence that we boost our pride and neglect humility. In times, when we feel confident, that is the time we should exercise our humility. The problem with pride all the time is that it brings shame if their pride is disrupted or crashed. That is, an egoistic person, when feeling shame loses. In conclusion, people with pride - you can defeat all the time. Cheers!
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
There are some people who just viewed themselves higher than the others. They are so proud of what they have done up to the point of being an annoyance to other people. I know someone who is like this and honestly, I don't like him. It feels not good to hear all of his boostings..But, I learned the reason why he acts that way. He lacks support at home and he is somehow an inferior person in their family. So, he acts differently when he is outside. I don't know about the reasons of other egoistic people but one thing is for sure, there are reasons why they are acting that way.