When does Love becomes dangerous?

For me love becomes dangerous when you love someone despite of knowing that what your doing is isn't right but you keep on listening to your heart and let your thinking be fooled by your heart you start liking and enhancing your desires to other woman or man who is not your husband or wife your feelings of love for your partner already fade away or starting to lose its warm

Love becomes dangerous when someone becomes to possessive. In a relationship, it doesn't mean that one owns the other person. Too much love can kill the relationship, too loose will let it go. Love should be in moderation always...in everything.

I don't ever want to get to that point. That will be the point of no return. Obsession is fatal, it's creepy and undeniably way below normal.

Daisy_22, I have had so many eperiences that have , and are still occurring to me pertaining to that topic. For example: (1)I have received 'raunchy' text messages from women and of which have ended in Court- without avail;(2) unaddressed letters from females whom I do not know telling me what they want to do with me if I am in their lives as their 'man'; (3)recieved 'strange' telephone calls to my home from women whom I do not know- on a regular basis; (4)as well as harrassment of my female friends and partner(s), by persons using unknown telephone numbers- yet these persons refuse to reveal themselves to me; (5) i recieved threats from past lovers who feel jilted because of the demise of the relationship; (6) I have been stalked by women who know of me and have become obsessed with what they (discover as well as what they) already know of me;(7) relationships have ended based on suspicions of other women being around and jeperdizing the integrity of the relationship.., and the lists go on and on. I have had reason to write and publish a book internationally, mentioning a 'minute section' of happennings in my life pertaining to aspects of this topic. Daisy_22, believe me when I state that I have lived it, and I am currently being exposed to more of this situation whereby love for me continues to become dangerous to me. Do you haveany suggestions as to how to deal with these situations?

yes i agree with you.love for me will become dangerous when you fall to a wrong person and blinded by your love and thinking that nobody exist in the world just the person you love.... want more about relationships?follow me at relationships etc www.ailynthoughts.com

Dangerous if the person is so possessive and obsessed in every way. They are like a personal diary of their partners, they need to know and check their person from time to time. That is too much love, that it can kill your soul.

Love becomes dangerous,when one becomes possessive of the other. So much so that he/she would become jealous, when he /she goes out with friends or would get too long outside. It's jealousy that endangers the relationship.

As for my experience, it becomes dangerous when it seems that your world or life only evolves on that person.

Yes, when there is no trust and respect love becomes dangerous. For me, I don't want to see him any more and am afraid of receiving his call, then love becomes dangerous.

I somehow agree to you that love becomes dangerous when trust and respect are gone. Based on my own experience, I became more jealous, suspicious to the extent that I doubt his every move. Yet because I have strong feelings for that person, I am trying my best to establish my trust on him once again. And I hope he would also help me.

Love is a positive feeling.., there is no danger in love not unless you will use it in a wrong way. :) if your you love too much to someone that leads you to adore that person then it's obsession...love that turns into obsession is dangerous. But I do believe that love is a positive feeling so therefore, it won't become dangerous.