Close friends option on Facebook!!

@ram_cv (16513)
India
July 22, 2012 12:28pm CST
Facebook recently introduced the "Close Friends" option which means that you can mark a select few of your friends as Close Friends. I am really not happy about this option. In the first place, I hate this concept of discriminating between your friends as Close Friends and not close friends. Of course, internally we might have these biases, but putting them up on a networking site for me is a really a no-no. What do you feel about this feature? Do you really find it useful? Cheers! Ram
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• United States
22 Jul 12
That's a trick question. I don't find being friends via Facebook useful. I do believe in close friends and just friends. my guy is my best friend. He Knows Everything about me. Then I have close friends . They know Most everything and I know mostly everything about them too. But the rest? They are just friends. I assume FaceBook wanted to make it easier to keep your close friends on one list while you keep the other 700 on another!
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• United States
23 Jul 12
Agreed!
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
23 Jul 12
:) Maybe for those of us who do not have 700 friends this feature is a bit useless. :) Cheers! Ram
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• India
23 Jul 12
Hello ram_cv, I think they have introduced this facility just only to get connected connected with our close friends deeply. I think by this feature we may get more updates of friends in the top of the page itself .
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
23 Jul 12
Yes, that is what they say. Cheers! Ram
@trinale (1479)
• United States
22 Jul 12
Hi Ram_cv! Your discussion gave me pause for thought. I hadn't given it much thought when Facebook first implemented the system and after reading your thoughts, I logged into my FB account and looked at my various list. They are: - Close Friends - Acquaintances - United States Air Force - Fort Walton Beach Area - Family - Pool Then I took time to think about how I came to associate with these people and concluded that yes, you are right -- this how we internally classify our contacts but I don't see any discrimination in it because, at least in my circle, everyone would agree to the group they are listed under if they knew they were being categorized. In any case, it's just an option. You don't have to use it. Cheers, Stan I can see the rationale for FB implementing the system.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
23 Jul 12
I actually see value in categorizing things as US AF, Family, etc. But having two groups saying Friend and Close Friend is what really I feel a bit bad about. But you are right it is optional and I have skipped using it so far. Cheers! Ram
@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
22 Jul 12
I don't use it and never will even consider the option. My friends list is small so its easy for me to just read the posts for the day to see how everyone is doing now. I'm aware some people have a huge number of people on their friends list, so it might be helpful for them.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
23 Jul 12
Yes, if someone has indiscriminately added people on to the list then they might need this feature. But for those who anyhow have selected friends, this feature is useless. Cheers! Ram
• United States
22 Jul 12
It is optional. I decided to try it out. I have no problem with choosing some friends as being "close friends," because I really am closer to some of them than others. I don't find the feature especially useful, though. It has not enhanced my Facebook experience. I would find better security features on the site to be useful. I would be happy if the way that my feed is sorted would not suddenly, mysteriously change from "most recent" to "top stories."
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
23 Jul 12
I agree there are other features which can also be improved. I too feel a bit disoriented when while scrolling down suddenly the feed refreshes and suddenly the position of where we were changes. Cheers! Ram
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
I don't mind at all if friends don't choose me as close friends and neither do I use the new feature. I am satisfied when the "like" and comment on my posts especially at our local FB group using our dialects wherein they love my sense of humor.
@ram_cv (16513)
• India
23 Jul 12
:) That is a more practical way to look at things. If they like my posts I am happy. Cheers! Ram
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
22 Jul 12
I am in agreement with you. It will eventually show who on your list is your close friend or not or who lists you as such by the way people post sometimes. For instance on one of my statuses I posted that I was out of recovery for the surgery and a few of them said they didn't even see the other statuses that I made stating that I was having surgery and they are online at various times of the day. I would then think they have their lists made and I wasn't included on their top friends list. I hope that makes sense?
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
22 Jul 12
Exactly, even though it might not be directly visible as to who is friend and who is Close Friend, one can eventually figure it out. Cheers! Ram