First time

I can definately tell you that not every girl bleeds her first time, myself included. Apparently certain sports as well as tampons can break the "wall". I hope you didn't confront her about that, especially if she did infact give her virginity to you, I'm sure she wouldn't want to hear that you're doubting something so special.

Yeah, second what vertu said earlier in the post. Also, just a tip.....use massage oil ..and lots of it. Give each other a massage first before going all in!! It will relax you and also, the massage oil on her private area will make it easy for you to penetrate. It will be less painful for her and more pleasurable to both of you !

As far as I know there must be bleeding but not all the virgin experience bleed at first time because there might be reason why they cannot bleed. They maybe loss their virginity while driving bicycle or she maybe a virgin but not experience bleeding but percentage of experience bleeding is only one with 100 women...

wow..you believe the old opinions about virginity...

Bleeding is not mandatory so she could have been a virgin and not bleed. Sometimes things happen and she looses her virginity in other ways, for example one of my neighbors (girl) fell with her thingy as you called it on a steel pipe and she kind of got an unwanted head start on the bleeding part. You can talk to her and settled this. I know it's frustrating but you can also figure it out from the way she behaved. If she was nervous or relaxed if it hurt her. Trust and communication are very important in a relationship so if you want to have a good relationship get her drunk and make her spill out the truth... i'm kidding, talk to her about it in a way that doesn't make her feel like a liar or easy. Best of luck and enjoy your manhood :).

The woman's part is an elastic in nature. Some of them, they don't usually bleed even if it is the first time. The question, does it matter to you if she is a virgin or not?