Left All Alone

I hope that you will be able to make friends. I have felt that way in the past. I have though learned to look for new and sincere friends. I'm thankful to have found many. When we search in the right places we are able to meet wonderful people.

Friends come and go in life. But one has to keep moving n in life that's the real essence of life. If you find your old buddies moving on so should you, becoz that's the only way you might fine good and genuine people who may stay with you going ahead and not desert you when you need them the most. Don't live in your past. every phase in life good or bad passes away, you just have to be open to others and be hopeful. All the best.

Aww. I'd have to say that it's a lot different here in the Philippines. Here in my country, people are warm and friendly. So most of us, even when we need to move, get to adjust easily to a new place because people here like making friends. People here are very friendly, even to foreigners. In fact, when locals know that a new foreigner is in town, they go out of their way to make the new guy feel comfortable. That's for the most part about Filipinos. Of course, there are a few bad eggs who take advantage of visitors, but for the most part, Filipinos love to make others feel at home. I would wish that everyone had a culture like this, but sad to say, in the urbanized countries, this is a tough thing to wish for. :(

hi nailtech that sounds sad and yet sort of poetic. I have rarely ever had that feeling until my son lost his job. we were sharing a 2 bedroom apartment and when He just could not find another job we used up all our savings, fell behind on the rent and were homeless. an awful feeling that and we finally had to each separate me going here to Gold crest and he found housing America an org. that helped young men without jobs to have a home to live in so they had an address to tell interviewers while looking for a job. I felt all alone coming here, and was told nonsense there are over 90 others living here. well excuse me but I am a widow and my son was my only family. all those ninety some people were then strangers to me and I felt all alone. then my son got a job and now comes to see me every weekend.I do not make friends easily either nailtech but have a few here in gold c rest and a lot here on Mylot.lol

Sounds like you are depressed to me. If you've just had surgery, you are still in recovery, not just physically, but mentally. It's harder to make friends as you get older if you are not in a sociable environment. You have your friends here at Mylot, but if you want touchy-feely friends, you need to join a club or society where you can meet like-minded people. You can be alone in a room full of people, it's getting it out of your mind. Maybe you should talk to your shrink, you all have one over there, right?

I'm so sorry to hear that. Maybe it's about time that you look within yourself. Have you asked them why, because I think you have the right to know because this will help you to grow as a person. To change to become better. I truly wish that you find someone who will accept you for you. Nowadays, true friends are hard to come by.