love magic
By luisaR
@luisaR (452)
Philippines
July 28, 2012 6:54am CST
sometimes I think I never experienced the magic of love yet. they say that it's magic when two people fall in love...and I got this at this age thinking if I had it or not. At my teens, if someone like me I didn't like them. I had a bf that time but it was just "puppy crush and affection". At my college years, it was the same. I have a child now but I may say the father and I never really had a special something. I may call it the "aggresive year and the exploration year". I fell so in love with someone or with 3 men but they never chose me to be with their life. I am always the second choice, so I guess they never have loved me. To conclude, there was no magic on all of it since most are one way feeling. It is a sad thought that I have never really indulge this great magic.How about you,what do you think that you have never experienced yet thinking that you are getting older?
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@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
2 Aug 12
I am looking to love and adore someone now in my life, it's 'my time', earlier would not have been right. As I look into it, and the stories of soul mates that we have in our own family, I believe that love magic exists. Getting a husband, for example, for me would be really easy. Just go to a local bar, look for a lonely guy and BAM, you are married. That happens a lot. Many loveless relationships out there. However, love itself takes much time and patience. Not too much, don't wait around for someone who will never show up, but just a little bit of patience. some men are shy, I think. Love is hard for some. My mother always warned me about taking the easy way out, and just finding people who were 'easy' to love. She had many women friends who used to come over and complain to her, saying if they had known then when they do now, they would have worked harder for the one they really loved. Getting a spouse is easy, but I think, finding someone who love you, a little harder to find.
@bocknoy (32)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
Love is very far from what we see in movies. It can be magic, but only if you are able to see the better side of things. It does feel good to be loved back by someone you care about, but you cannot expect it to happen all the time. Love is given freely, and if it is not reciprocated, it should not stop you from loving. Just think about what will happen to the world if everyone with a broken heart will suddenly lose faith in love. Also, some of us are blinded by the illusion that love is a perfect setting. But the truth is, a relationship can only be called love if the two people in it can accept each other's imperfectness. It is magic if you can love a person for everything that he / she is and for everything that he / she is not.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
29 Jul 12
Hi, IuisaR:
Love is the compatibility between two souls, when they would be aligned, you will feel this magic. Attention to external appearance, and general culture that makes the person subject to the integration with others, those factors are that make them come near us, then is love and enjoy its wonderful magic influential.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
29 Jul 12
Hi friend, i don't think love is having magic, it is just a part of life and we will live a happy life with our beloved persons, as you mentioned you don't feel any special with your companions, it clearly shows that love don't have any magic
