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bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

get ready for pregnancy

prepare for pregnancy

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bocknoy I totally agree with you. Maturity and financial stability of the parents are what can ensure a brighter future for their baby. It feels good to become pregnant with a husband by your side, and all your nees and those of the baby provided for.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy You have a point. The problem is that, in some cultures "the act" is their demonstration of love, and it's just an ordinary thing for people in a romantic relationship. But I belong to a Christian community, and also believe in chastity before marriage.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy Yes. I know someone who got pregnant at a very early age, but is still able to prove herself as a good mother.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy Yes. The baby will need not just love, but material things too. Parents should prepare for the child's coming. But if pregnancy happens unexpectedly, it does not give parents the right to give it poor attention.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy You are right. There is no valid reason to why a mother can't love her child. Prepared or not, the baby is the parents' responsibility, and a gift to love and protect.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy Thanks. My son is almost 2 now. It's just that before I got pregnant with him, people thought that I got too excited about my pregnancy.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy Every child is a gift. You are right, parents should give their children the love and attention they deserve in spite of difficulties in life.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Is it really necessary to plan your pregnancy, or is it enough that both you and your husband agree to have a child? Unplanned pregnancy is blamed for many cases of child abuse, malnutrition, birth defects, among others. They say...

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bocknoy You are right. Pregnant women will need all the support that she can get especially from the people who care about her.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

leg scars

scars on the legs

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bocknoy Scars make men look tough. My husband don't have scars like mine; his legs look better than mine and we always laugh about it.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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bocknoy Yeah. Some things just can't be avoided. It's a good thing that yours are not noticeable anymore.

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bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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bocknoy Thanks. But I still hope that there is a way to get rid of scars.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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bocknoy I just don't have a choice. the scars are on the lower part of my legs, and i can't wear long pants everyday.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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bocknoy I agree with you. I heard that people who are more mindful of the way other people look are insecure. I just wish I can still sincerely smile at them despite their bad habits; i don't want to hold grudges on anyone, you know.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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bocknoy I meant.. look down on someone.

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bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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bocknoy Thanks. I am relieved that there are people who do not look on someone just because of her scars.

31 Jul 12

bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

During the early days, it was expected that a man works to provide for his family, while the wife stays at home to look after the children and attend to his needs. Such a scenario rarely exist today; life is tough and both parents...

obligations of a wife

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bocknoy @bocknoy (32) • Philippines 31 Jul 12

I had an accident when I was kid, and it left a mark on both my legs. But it doesn't stop me from wearing shorts or going to the beach. I know that my legs are not the "for display" type, but i don't think it should keep from...

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midnightdreams @midnightdreams (25) 30 Jul 12

hey everyone i think ive read so many books that usually when hero and the heroine usually have some spark when they first see each other or their fate keeps coming together. i know its fiction and made up but what better to know...

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bocknoy Hi. My husband and I were introduced by a common friend. He said that the first time he saw me, he knew right then and there that I am the one for him. I didn't feel the same way he did during our first meeting, but I saw in his eyes that he meant more than...

30 Jul 12

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