LOVE (long distance relationship)

Four years is a pretty long time for a relationship. Surely you are ready for a change. How long are you planning to be apart. I think it's ridiculous to have such a relationship for so long...it makes no sense. What's the point of continuing if you cannot be together?

I believe that long distance relationship is for only people who has strength faith, for only people who is contented and for people who can really wait. If she really loves you she will stay and be true to you. I know how it feels I've been in a long distance relationship too but we are the same here in the Philippines but he cheated on me so I ended our relationship its not worth it and worth fighting. If I were you I will ask her for reasons but don't give up easily and well if that what makes her happy, if you really love her you will let her go. That's life you need to move on.

I am sorry to hear your story now...i could understand her thinking..since my love is broken because of a long distance also even though we was together before that. In my case, his caring is not good enough, he was always busy and sometime didn't talk with me for weeks. when talking, we did much conflicts and debates and no solution for it after that since talking is interrupted..day by day...like that and it killed my love. i was very tired with it and many things in my heart i could not speak out and finally i have to give up because the relationship can't work more... I told you my story..and through it you can find out the way to keep your gal since you have a long distance relationship also.

I know how you feel and it sucks. My boyfriend of 2 and a half years just went in the army a few months ago and we've been apart ever since. I just saw this past weekend but it wasn't enough. HIs biggest fear is me cheating or not being loyal to him. I know he trusts me but he still can't help but worry. Unfortunately, if she wants to end the relationship there's not much you can do. She's going to do what she feels is right for her. The only thing you can really do is just tell her how much you love her and really want to be with her. I hope everything works out for the both of you.

loyalty is different from faithfulness. know the difference? anyway, referring to your story then, so she don't trust you. that kind of relationship badly needs so much trust and if one of you don't have it or don't have enough trust to live the relationship, then ,much better to let go.try to pacify her and prove your worth to her but if you've given your best and still she can't forgive you, then let her go.. after all, it's not your loss.

Have you tried to talk to her about the relationship? Maybe she heard some news about you on having another relationship while she's gone. Or worst, maybe she found another one whom she think or feel is far more better than you for her. Im not saying that your a lesser person, what i'm trying to say is that since she's too far from you, maybe, just maybe she found a person there who made her feel special.

It is not easy to have the long distance relationship. And four years is also not a short time. I think both of you shall have a plan, such as the marriage. Or at least you shall spend some time to stay together so that you can see whether you are suitable for each other. It is important because it can make you know more each other. And one of you have to make some sacrifice because this is a long distance relationship. You shall think about where to live in the future. Good luck! I love China

It can be very hard when you're so far away from each other, and a lot of people just find that they can't deal with it and they end up not wanting to be together at all anymore. If this is the way she feels then I am not sure that there is all that much that you can do about it. Maybe she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you do about her, and the distance may not have all that much to do with it at all. If your relationship was strong enough to last then it would have done regardless of the number of miles that are between you.

I didn't know her reason why is she breaking up with you. You said you didn't look at other girls so why is there loyalty issue? I guess you can stop her if you really prove her that you realy love her and there's no other girl.

i personally dont believe in long distance relationships. they are very hard to maintain because of physical absence and lesser communication. maybe you can work on: 1. communicating more through skype or chat or phone 2. look for a job in dubai where she is 3. don't be after her. let her know that you care for her but don't suffocate her 4. show her your positive points and how bright your future is. as in attract her to you. show her what advantages she will have with you. (we are humans after all.) 5. communicate about your feelings. dont just discuss events and blame each other. tell each other how you felt durin a fight or argument. good communication is really the key to good relationships.

Long distance relationship is difficult to maintain when you r not keeping in touch and not seeing each other more than years. But loyalty is something that can be an issue in any kind of relationship, whether its long distance or a normal one. I think you guys need to sit together and sort it out. If she wants to move on for any other reason try to understand it. Otherwise if she also loves you equally as you love her, she will never go away!!!

I am sorry to hear that,but I think maybe she is not as good as you love her so much.I think if she loves you that much,she will believe in you and never doubts your loyalty.

I also have the same long-distance relationship, it's hard because if you want to let go of the desire to meet needs for his sacrifice. But here I do hnaya within a few hundred km course, while you may be thousands of KM away. But I salute you, you are able to do so. I think the right advice to make long-distance relationship is commitment and trust, if it can be done may one day be a happy ending.