jellsiguenza

@jellsiguenza (147)

Philippines • Age 50

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My friend lost her baby...

aejey322 @aejey322 (1004) • Philippines 9 Oct 12

I have mentioned in my previous post that my friend was admitted in the hospital due to miscarriage. She was trying to contact me but she haven't because my cellphone was under repair. It really made me feel guilty knowing that...

family

friendship

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jellsiguenza A child is a precious blessing. She had lost it now but for sure she can have not only one but more in the future. Maybe it is not the right time for them to have a baby. Everything that happens to us has reasons. So Im sure there are reason why it happened....

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Third World Countries

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 9 Oct 12

I hear this so often I mean like in the movies like the phrase People are starving in third world Countries you know like when someone you know is throwing out good food thst can still be aten or even if they buy some sort of food...

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jellsiguenza Countries who are called third world countries are countries that are economically poor. And yes, it is also true that there are so many people starving in the whole world. Here in our country there are many cases of malnutrition. We have a good government...

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I feel so hurt

powerpuffgirls @powerpuffgirls (627) • Philippines 8 Oct 12

I kinda feel so hurt right now and I wanted to get away from this feeling. I hope my boyfriend would call to ease this pain. He is kinda busy so I don't want to bother him with that. My heart feels like bitten or squeezed. I...

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jellsiguenza There are times that we feel hurt or in pain. In my opinion I think the best thing to do is not dwell on it. Think of the good things that happened to your life. Think of the blessing you have received so that you'll feel better. Don't be too emotionally...

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How do you discipline a child?

niairen01 @niairen01 (1018) • Philippines 8 Oct 12

May it be your child, your younger cousin, younger sibling, nephew. How do you do it? Do you actually implement corporal punishment or do you just state out your speech? As for me, I always do it with a mild speech. I let them...

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jellsiguenza There are times that talking is not enough. There are times when my kids are between 7-10 that I let them lay down and I give them a harder than tap in their butt. Just to let them know that if they do it again, I will tap them harder the next time. But as...

8 Oct 12

People always overreacting... and even on small things.

ardoy0731 @ardoy0731 (7308) • Philippines 8 Oct 12

Indeed people are different from each other and we cannot please everybody as well. Why do people always overreact in things.They cant take constructive criticism and close minded on changes and things that could help them to...

overreact

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jellsiguenza I encountered the likes of those people and they are really hard to be with. Even if we care for us and we just want them to be better, they misunderstood us. In my opinion, there is nothing we can do about that since they don't listen to other's opinion or...

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Funeral- loss of words/what to say

rs1982 @rs1982 (99) • United States 5 Oct 12

I never know what to say at a funeral. How do we condole someone who lost a special person? I mean, we tell them we are there if they need anything but that seems so fake. After we step out, we get so busy in our lives that we...

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jellsiguenza There are exactly no words can condole a person who just lost a loved one. I simply hug the person tight and I think thru that the person knows how I am feeling for her/him.

5 Oct 12

Good for business...bad for the heart.

bembzee @bembzee (768) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

My mom is pretty in her late thirty. She manage our restaurant from day one up to the present. She love her work so much because it is her passion to own a business like her parent's. She is witty and very warm individual. I guess...

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jellsiguenza Maybe the ex of your mom did something terrible in the past the reason why your mother still holds grudge on him. As for your father, maybe he is just jealous that is why he wants to be around your mom when your mom is at the restaurant. It is just normal for...

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I don't worry about other people's lives

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

My sister is worrying about someone she knew who has lost her job recently. But she should not bother too much because we ourselves don't have work for years and she does not feel pity over our situation and why worry or pity or...

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jellsiguenza Different people have different opinions on certain things. In my opinion you are the type of person who don't give so much attention on other person. And your sister seem to think or care about her friends. But in my opinion, I think you are somewhat sad...

4 Oct 12

Is it normal to forget??

verolop29 @verolop29 (1096) • United States 4 Oct 12

I don't think it's normal but for me it is. U see I don't like it because it makes me appear like I'm a lier. And I don't lie. I may not tell the whole truth or I may skip a few details. Take today, for example. I was on the...

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jellsiguenza I am experiencing what you have also. I sometimes forget things that are important. Sometimes even simple things like I will get something in the bedroom and then when Im in the bedroom I keep on thinking what I will get in the room. Maybe, just maybe it has...

4 Oct 12

Are we there yet?

adnileb @adnileb (5276) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

It's the second -ber month already. So excited for the holidays. I can smell the cold Christmas air. Sometimes I want to be in those places where there's snow during Christmas. I would love to be there...

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jellsiguenza December is the busiest month of the year and this is the month that most people are waiting for. It is also the most expensive month. Usually I plan for Christmas during this month and it is good now to buy gifts for our families and friends because there are...

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Is it alright to wait , though chance is slim ?

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

It is so beautiful to be in love , seems everything you see got a spark and has a beauty . But love is like coin , it have two sides , one side of it is the sad side. Sometimes the other person that you loved finds a new one , but...

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jellsiguenza I believe that we cannot avoid or stop out "fate". So there is no reason for you to wait for him because if he is really the one for you, he will surely come back to you. And if he didn't , then he never was. Enjoy life and who knows, you might meet someone...

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Taking the risk

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

In loving someone is like taking a risk. Taking a risk for everything. Your life, dreams ,future and etc. for a true love. Yet if taking the risk is having a true love, who cares right. Giving up what i have for my true love?

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taking the risk

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jellsiguenza Yes it is true that we take a risk in loving someone. But we always take a risk when we do things that we love most. But the risk is nothing compared to the feeling that we feel when we are in love. The happiness that we feel when we love somebody can only be...

4 Oct 12

I woke up too late this day

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

My sister said she has done so many things already and said I should do the work now. As we take rounds in caring for our father. I was not really tired that is why I awoke up late. I was just feeling lazy. So I hope that I...

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jellsiguenza Goodluck! There are really times that I feel the same way too. Sometimes we don't have enthusiasm to do the thngs we have to do. Well, everybody has moos swings. :) Hope you have a nice day.

4 Oct 12

Do you watch what your children eat?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 3 Oct 12

My son who is now 17 use to be so over weight when he was 7-12. I honestly feel so bad that I noticed, but didn't really notice. When we went for a check up and got a health scare it brought it to light how over weight he was....

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jellsiguenza I have a 15 year old daughter and I have problems with her weight and eating habits. I enrolled her in gym and also watch her food intake but I cannot watch her everytime especially when she is in school. Last summer she lost weight but she gained weight when...

4 Oct 12

He keeps Coming BACK...!

Ciel08 @Ciel08 (29) 4 Oct 12

the man i was in a relationship came back... he wanted us to get back together.. i'm not gonna deny i still have a little bit feelings for him... but i don't want us to get back together he already broke my heart and i don't to...

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jellsiguenza Even if he keeps coming back, you must think also that he keeps on hurting you also. In my opinion I think he don't love you that much. Because he hurt you not once but several times. Your decision of not reconciling with him is the best for you. You learn...

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Is there possibility of falling in love to two person at the same time?

bembzee @bembzee (768) • Philippines 4 Oct 12

I had a present boyfriend at the moment and yet i am very attracted to other guy. I love my boyfriend but i also cannot stop thinking of the other. I had this huge crush over the other guy way back then. I feel guilty for keeping...

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jellsiguenza The intensity of love can never be the same. It might be true that you love your boyfriend but I guess not the term "love" to its greatest and truest meaning of the word. Because if you really love your boyfriend there is no way you feel the same way to the...

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Did this movie make you laugh?thn

audrey92 @audrey92 (20) • United States 9 May 12

When I first watched this movie , it made me laugh so much my stomach hurt. Adam Sandler is so funny, he is one of my favorite comedians.I love to laugh. I think everyone should laugh atleast once a day. What do you think about...

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jellsiguenza Movie is nice. It made me laugh also but kinda sad because they have to do it everyday. It is good and a positive outlook to laugh once in a while. People who often laugh or smile looks younger. It makes us feel better and when we laugh we relieve stress. Have...

20 Sep 12

Siesta time

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5968) • Greece 17 Sep 12

Sleeping in the afternoon is a luxury I enjoy in the summer months. As long as I sleep for no longer than an hour it does not affect my ability to sleep at night. When I wake up in the afternoon I feel as fresh as I did in the...

afternoon nap

siesta

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jellsiguenza Siesta time makes me feel better also. I have to wake-up early to prepare kids for school, and after lunch time I feel sleepy. Most of the time I take a nap in the afternoon because if I failed to do it, I feel dizzy or sometimes I have headache in the early...

19 Sep 12

People who suddenly decide out of nowhere.

angelkarah050182 @angelkarah050182 (4980) • Philippines 18 Sep 12

How would you feel if you just moved near to your workplace, then after a couple of weeks there's a rumor that the top dog is planning to move to a different location? Hmmmm. I can't believe that that's about to happen to me. LOL....

unpredictable people

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jellsiguenza There is nothing much you can do but hope that the new location is near the place you are staying now. If it is true that the company is moving to a new location I think it is decided because of different factors. The rent might be cheaper or maybe the company...

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My toddler distracts me with kisses

tangleddreams84 @tangleddreams84 (581) • United States 18 Sep 12

My two year old is very smart. She is doing something like today where she took my cards out of my wallet while I was using one to make a payment online. She decided to say "kiss kiss" while hiding the cards. I said thank you took...

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jellsiguenza My 4 year old kid is very adorable too. he always hug me and kiss me. Even if he's playing he will run to me and shower me with kisses. Being a mother is the best blessing I had. Just looking at my kids make me smile. They are my happiness.

19 Sep 12