Is it alright to wait , though chance is slim ?

I believe that we cannot avoid or stop out "fate". So there is no reason for you to wait for him because if he is really the one for you, he will surely come back to you. And if he didn't , then he never was. Enjoy life and who knows, you might meet someone who is far more better than him. Love comes when you least expect it. Have a nice day!:)

It's hard to assume when there's nothing to hope. You're the one who say how much the chances are. Look into his eyes, the way he treat you and his gestures towards you. But sometimes, actions are not enough and too much expectation is much harder to accept once truth prevails.

I don't think that it is a good idea to spend your life waiting for people who you might not have all that much chance with. I did this for a couple of years, and I drove myself mad with it. Now, I see him all the time and I wonder just why I wasted so much energy on him in the first place because he was never worth my time. I am with someone now who is much better for me and I am glad that I saw sense and gave this other guy chance because it got to the point where I was only wasting my life when I could have done so much better.

If you think that the prize at stake is big and worth your time and effort, I think that there's nothing wrong with waiting although your chance is slim. I've heard this from my father that, to be given a chance to win or have something is something we should be grateful for. He calls it opportunity. If I am in your shoes, I think I'll be considering few things before waiting. Is this guy worth waiting for? Is he single? I am always realistic when it comes to love so I might also consider if I am really capable of making him fall for me.

Be kind to yourself and let him go. In the long run it will hurt you much less. He has moved on and found someone else so it is your turn to keep in step with him and do the same thing. It is unlikely that your wait will be rewarded and if it is you will never trust him the same way again and you will be different too because when someone turns to another woman it makes the old girlfriend lose confidence. Right now you need to feel loved by someone else who will appreciate you and make you feel like a queen again.

Yes it is beautiful to be in love...But you want someone who will love you as much as you love them...and If his eyes are turned so easily... should show you that the kind of love you are looking for is not there...Move on, Love will find you when you least expect it...I have found in my life once's they start looking else where, they will always look ... but remember when you do move on, he may try to get you back..Because most don't want you...but the don't want anyone else to have you....and you need to keep in mind...His eyes left you once...and they will again...Don't give up a good one for someone else's sloppy seconds..because that is what he has become

Hey, Angelpink! I hope you will feel better after reading my thoughts about your plea. Honey, if you think you are hurting so much, let him go. The fact that he left you means he is not worth your love. Why waste your time waiting for something that you are unsure to come back? And why would you still want him back after the way he has treated you? Once he does it, he can do it again. Don't you think that could hurt you even more? You have your whole life in front of you. Make yourself busy with other stuff. Go out and meet new friends. Explore new places and discover the things that you might have missed while you have been away from others. It is never too late to start a new relationship, though you need not rush things. I hope I have shed you some light. I wish you well.

Finding true love is the best thing that can happen to you, however one needs to know if their feelings are true or just sensational. Never rush into any relationship without knowing what you want from it. Some people seek partners for material gain such as cars, money and big houses but this cant take you far. Most women who rush into false courtship end up having unwanted pregnancies thus dropping out of school, with all their dreams and ambitions thrown off the bin, particularly when the alleged lover refuses to accept responsibility of their raising kid. I believe that it's good to wait till the right time when you are mature enough to understand what true love is. Don't expect marriage to be a bed of roses, since there are also very many responsibilities that come with it. There's always a special someone for all of us.