People always overreacting... and even on small things.
By ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
Philippines
October 8, 2012 1:52am CST
Indeed people are different from each other and we cannot please everybody as well.
Why do people always overreact in things.They cant take constructive criticism and close minded on changes and things that could help them to be better. They just believing on what they believe whether its right or wrong and don't welcome any constructive criticism. Just stand what they believe in even it is wrong, think and assumes that they are always right.
They easily judged other people yet annoyed when they are criticized. They easily overreacting on small things and making the issue big and controversial.
So hard to mingle and please other people who are overreacting instead seeing the brighter and better side of a certain matter.
Patience is really a virtue and understanding should be broaden.
9 responses
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
8 Oct 12
I hate people who does that. I have got two girlfriends that are like that and it gets really annoying. Much more, they embarrassed you in front of people without having any consideration at all. They do not understand that some criticisms basically helps you to better understand yourself and how to improve on your bad qualities. Don't waste your time understanding them or compromising with them, just ignore them and let them learn the hard way. Talking does not help these kind of people at all. They are too hard-headed. :)
If we all thought the same, the world would ceased to exist I tell you.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
At first maybe it would be okay and understandable, but when they do it all the time it would really be so annoying and irritating.Sometimes people around them are the one adjusting and compromising but we really have to teach them lesson so they would realize things and think what the best thing to do to change it.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Oct 12
Patience is very much a virtue. However, if everyone had the same kind of patience, I don't really think that it would be a virtue any more. Instead, I actually think that it would be something that wouldn't differentiate people.
When it comes to conflict, I do believe that people do need to realize that no other person is exactly the same as they are and for that reason alone, you should judge other people just because their views are different from our own.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Yeah people are different from each others but we should learn to accept our mistake and open to constructive criticism or opinions that could help us to be a better and change person.We also have to learned to listen to other and not just believing with ourselves only.
@GemmaR (8517)
•
8 Oct 12
I have a friend who always has very strange reactions about things that happen to him. One of the things that he always does is try to make out as though people are picking on him, when actually the only thing that they're doing is treating him in exactly the same way as they would treat any of their other friends. I have spoken to him about it a few times and tried to make him see sense about it, but I think that it is just one of those things that will never change, so we have to remember why we love him and accept him for who he is.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Well there are some people around who are not open into changes.They always think that they always right and better to other people around them.We don't have to waste our time to those people and spend our time in more valuable things.IF we could tell them at once or twice yet they are still the same, well it would be up to them if they will change, at least we already did our part.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
People who assumes they are always right are the ones who are egoistic.
they always thought they're always right and never consider other's opinion/suggestion and ideas.
They cannot accept their mistakes either- due to pride.
They are everywhere and we cannot avoid bumping to these kind of people.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Yeah they always think that they are always better to other and always right.We can't avoid them cause they are always around the corner but better ignored them and don't get bothered at all.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I was smiling while reading your discussion. Because, I have encountered a lot of people who are like this. I think that is just how and what they are on things and stuff. They tend to overreact even on very simple things. What I do with this people? I ignore them, than really taking in what they are doing that will only piss me off and will be making my day bad. While as ignoring them, I will have a pleasant day and I wouldn't be bother with their over, over, reaction..lol!
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
I also encounter it most of the time.Ignoring would be the better way than wasting time to them and letting them ruin our day.Better focus on things that we have to do than listening to them and get annoyed.
@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
The saying "We can't please everybody is true." Really, it is annoying when people can't take constructive criticism, why can't they appreciate that we're trying to make them better right? But some people are really like that-- blocking other people's opinions without basis.
We should just keep our cool when this happens so we won't end up ruining our day because of people who don;t know how to react properly. ^_^
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Yes, we should be cool and act/think maturely to avoid any conflicts or violent reaction from those people.Those people would really overreact on things and won't listen to other people due to their pride.We already done our part so it would be up to them if they will take it for them to be better and change.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
8 Oct 12
Hey thank u so much for the discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, people these days are overreacting even on small things and that is affecting the worst on their personal and professional relationships. They should understand that just be overreacting in such a way they are not going to gain anything but in the process they will loose a lot of thing that wont come back again to their lives. Things can be sorted out in a peaceful way.
What say?
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Well their overreaction on things not just affect them but affect other people around them that just wanted to help for the better.They are not open in constructive criticism that could help to change something or some matter for the better.I don't waste to those kind of people and just go on with my own life.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
8 Oct 12
Patience is a virtue...which I do not have haha! While it is much better to avoid crossing paths with people who tend to make a big deal out of anything, there are certain times that we cannot avoid interacting with them. By my own experience, whenever they launch into their tirade about this and that, I just don't say anything at all. Once they're done and thy figure they couldn't get any reaction from me they will leave me alone. I am not responsible for their maturity and a person can only take so much crap in a day.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Well avoiding them would be the best way to do to avoid argument and confrontation that may lead to misunderstanding in the end.Better not get bothered and just mind our own selves than wasting time to them.
@jellsiguenza (147)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I encountered the likes of those people and they are really hard to be with. Even if we care for us and we just want them to be better, they misunderstood us. In my opinion, there is nothing we can do about that since they don't listen to other's opinion or advice. Let's just hope that we can be able to stand their presence. And let's just try our best not to have discussions with them because for sure their opinions really matters for them.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Yeah,they just listen to their selves.I always encounter people like that that really irritates me.Before I used to argue to those people to know that they are wrong but now, I rather let them and don't want to get bother at all so I won't get irritated.
