she's ignoring me would i do the same?
By rkennedee
@rkennedee (333)
August 3, 2012 7:50am CST
a friend of mine seems to be ignoring me after asking her to pay for the money i lend her. I think i did nothing wrong and i don't deserve that kind of treatment after everything i did to her. Since she's ignoring me i just pretend to ignore her also and she's already getting into my nerves. I already try to approach her and still she just don't like to start any conversation with me when we are in are group.. huh?
4 responses
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
3 Aug 12
You my friend have learned a valuable lesson. Never loan out money to people. Friends and family think they can take advantage of a relationship when it comes to borrowing money, and when it comes time to collect you become a bad person for doing it. If you have a friend in need and want to help out, give them the money you can afford to lose, and don't require it to be paid back. If you can't afford to give it away then don't give anything and tell your friend you can't help them out. As far as this friend who is ignoring you, they weren't really a friend to begin with if that's how they act now. Cut your losses and be happy you got your money back and now you have one less fake friend in your life.
@rkennedee (333)
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3 Aug 12
very well said PhillyDreamer. I like it. Then if she keeps only playing dumb with me I can play dumb to her also. I just like to irritate her as much as i'm irritated to her right now.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
hi rken,
it's either she can't pay you now or she don't have plan to pay you
well I have this kind of friend they say if you want to loose some friends lend them money
happy mylotting
@rkennedee (333)
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3 Aug 12
yeah... I always heard of that saying or maybe she's not just worth it to be my friend. There are people who just like getting from other but don't have any to give. "selfish"
@bigearner (131)
• India
4 Aug 12
take your money from her and let her go away from your life. this type of people put you in some kind of trouble again in life. so keep a distance with them.
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
You have the right to ask her over and over again, you're the one who lend her a money and she has the responsibly to pay you back. Talk to her nicely don't argue with her, if then your just pushing her away. Anyway if the money is too big to pay and she don't wants to pay you, to the point that you just need to go to the police. Let the authority handle it.
