When friendship turns sour...

Personally I think it really depends on a situation, and how the people react around each other. I am sure that even though the one person might have felt or known the guy was no good the other friend chose to ignore it, and instead flaunt her new found friendship with this man. But if he is No good and the one decided to break off the friendship and not listen hopefully in the end she will one day wake up and come apologize as well. For you the Best advice is be their as a friend to both of them while trying to stay out of the middle, and hope the Best for them both.

You never stop being a friend to a friend. ONCE A FRIEND ALWAYS A FRIEND. If you leave your friends side when going gets tough then their will be no difference between the two of you. And if that is the message you want to pass along then you should stop immediately. You just need to rebuild your foundations. learn from the past experience and you will see your friendship sour to new heights ALL THE BEST!

I stopped being a friend to a friendship that I had with a friend for well over 20 years, as she tried texting my husband behind my back chatting him up. When I confronted both my friend as well as my husband they were both shocked to think that I had found out. Nowfriends like her I can do without in my life and if the truth was to be known, she was coming here to see my husband and take the micky out of me behind my back, talking also about me to other friends about what she was doing. As for my husband, we dont speak to each other unless it is todo with our children.

The friendship ends when one does not respect the gift of having such a friend. Do what's right, protect yourself.

This si a sad, but too often true story. You hear it a lot. I dont see why people put men over friends. There is no reason that you cant have a partner and friends, you just balance time spent with both of them. It is always a shame when friendships go wrong. I know friends come and go sometimes and so do partners, but often friendships are lost over silly little things. it is always a sasd time I live byt e saying treat others how you want to be treated yourself.

I think that when the friend betrays you that's when you need to put the friendship to an end. If you don't then there are trust issue that come with the friendship, after everything is over. True friendship last even if there is boys included in the picture.

That's happened to me. I have had people take advantage of me and betray my trust, and go behind my back. I have learned to be very picky about friends, and I have learned to know who your enemies are, and know your real friends from those who are just pretending to be your friends. You stop being their friend they minute they betray your trust, they minute they turn their back on you, and the minute they treat you like a door mat. You don't want friends like that.

I think most probably you might tell both of them and might do a talk sometimes it might help and sometimes it is not. I also have seen lots of girls going for men who are not worth it and sometimes they go for men who are not good at character. Sometimes I wonder why they go for such guys rather than someone who is sweet and make them feel like princess. I have heard from some of my friends (girls) that they like to have tough guys or guys who smoke or drink etc than sweet guys. Something that I wonder why they go for it. I think most times friendships that are broken are hard to fix it and most probably you can do a little counseling and hope that will help it.

Well, the friendship seems a simple thing, but sometimes, it's more complicated than it appears! I personally, do not exclude of knowing "only for view" most people but if you really want to know the truth, the true friends I can count only 3. I am totally out of any romantic relationship, but when people who then frequented in the past have become engaged, to me, left me alone, and this bothered me a lot! Do you know if you have a true friend will never betray you, but with the various engagements, we are sure that always reign loyalty?

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, love have the ability to split the good friendship, this story is a great example for this. The girl who loved the wrong guy lost everything including her good friend. I will give up my friendship if the person is wrong and doing betraying or cheating activities against me

I stop being a friend to a friend when she don't want me anymore. A good friend tells you if what your doing is right or wrong. She will never tolerate you when she knows that what your doing is really bad or wrong. Its up to the person if she wants to take the advice but you can never ask a person to follow your advice. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and there are times that we differ from one's opinion. As a good friend, we should not feel mad if our opinions or advices were taken for granted. Yes, it is true that a good friend always wish for the best but at the end of the day we cannot make the decision for another person's personal life especially pertaining to the affairs of the heart. If her affair turns sour, as a good friend we should always be at her side and give her the sturdy shoulders she can lean on.

It is a given that when a friend betrays you, everything that has to do with her suddenly stops. But in your case that you're in the middle of those two, it must have been hard. If you chose to be with the one who's been betrayed, the other will feel bad because technically, she had done nothing to you. Moreover, trying to fix them both won't do any good, for you might be in trouble and end up to be the cause of a more troublesome relationship with them. I guess you have to give them time to think things over just between them. It wouldn't hurt if you'll just keep silent for a while.

First of all, my question is "why she has to listen everything".Whether he is good or bad, leave it.What is her age?.She has the capability to chose her life partner.But she cant make a decision about her friend.May be she dont want to be with her friend and stopped speaking with her.

friends are important in our life.they can turn to a bad memory to you.so we should pick them carefully

True friendship is supposed to last forever. If it doesn't, then it wasn't real friendship.

I don't think we should stop being a friend to anyone unless he/she do something grave to you. Two to three years is long but I have experienced this with whom I thought my bestfriend for 15years!

I stop being a friend to a friend when she does not help me in my life problems,when she makes fun of my weakness.