Home is not Home without " MOM"

Hi, I completely agree that home is no home without the presence of our mother.When your mom went to attend a wedding for the first time leaving you, you felt lonely just as I do when my mother goes somewhere for few days. She is now reaching the age of retirement and so she is making frequent trips to different holy places. We are a nuclear family of three, so I stay with my father when she is gone. I feel so lonely and downcast at those times; those are the times I realize what my mom means to me and what a significant role she plays in my life. There is no one in the world who can take the place of my mother. I miss her badly when she is away on those trips; I keep calling her up frequently and sometimes I am in tears as I get so emotional. We should shower our love on our mother as they have taken such pains for us and love us from the bottom of their hearts. I hope your mom is back now and you are happy now my friend.Surely mothers are the best in the world.

The bitter truth is that we realize the real value of things when we lose them.Of all my brothers and sisters I was the one most attached and closest to my mother.She loved all of us,but being the youngest I was her dearest child.Six years back she expired.Now myself,my wife,my sisters and our kids all seven members are there in our family,but we feel as if we are living in a desolated house.My father left us long ago and we could not fill the space created by his departure.And then my mother expired.Now our home is a house only,not a home. I agree with you.

I understand that you are very close to your mom, but I guess that you can take this moment to practice independence. You can take this time to learn to do things on your own like cooking, baking, or just rearranging or cleaning your room. So that when your mom arrived you can tell her about the new things you have learned. Maybe, you can cook or bake for her. I am sure she would love that. I also grew up with parents and when I entered college, I had to move out of our house to live near my school. It is really hard at first but surely you will learn.

Definitely! And, a happy mom makes a happy home. That's also how i felt before, when I was still single and staying with my mom. When she's away, even for just a couple of hours, it seems that the world has gone upside down. I can do stuff for myself, but it really feels different when our mother is there. Now, that I'm a mom, myself, the house is really different if Im the one managing the chores and everything else.

To lose mom to lose everything. Mother is second to none in the world. There is no other heaven better than that of being with mother. Mother is an ever well wisher. May be if we hit our mom's head our of anger and bleed it, she never allege against me or curse me. Mom is our direct God. Even mom is ready to die for us.

A House is not Home without ''Mom''. It is true. Each woman is unique by age, education and experience and each child is unique too. A good mother is there when child needs her and who puts her child's needs above her own.

Hi prashu, My mom passed away a long time ago but I still know what you mean. Mothers are often taken for granted until they leave us, even if it's only for a few days. I remember how much I missed my mother the first time she went away for several days and later I missed her when I left home. Mothers are very special, no matter what our age. Be sure to let her know that you missed her and how happy you are to have her home again. Blessings.

That is true prashu, i also miss my mother till now that i am old already. We live separately and we seldom see each other so i see to it that i call her once a week. I have an eighteen year old daughter and she is so dependent on me but whenever i have to go out of town she has no choice but to be left at home alone. I know she miss me but i see to it that i call her two three times a day. You know sometimes we have to leave you to teach you to be independent. Take this opportunity to do the things your mother do to you. I am sure she'll be surprised but will be more than happy.

I truly hope my children feel this way about me as they grow. I try to do my best for them so I hope they love me that much that they will miss me if I went somewhere without them. Their my world.

Hi, As your mom never go alone anywhere without you it is obvious that you feel upset without your mother. Mother ust be missing you too. But you should take care of yourself when your mo is not with you. By doing this your mother would feel happy for you.

Hi friend, you are right, it is really hard to miss our mum and our home is not a good one without our mother. I too missed my mother in my childhood days some times due to some festivals and functions, at that time i will stay with my siblings and father and we all are feeling loneliness without our mother

That is a nice description for our mom's, a home is not a home without their presence. I think, the role of a mother is a tough job. Nurturing and taking good care for everything and for her family. She has this golden touch to feel us weak at times.

It feels weird to stay away from my mom. My mom stays at home most of the time and i am the one going out on short and long trips. Even in a bunch of people i keep thinking about what she is doing without me. Whether she is worried or happy. What type of smile she is wearing. I keep thinking of how she is holding up. But on the other hand i also feel freedom. :D with no one to call me early in the morning i really enjoy the late morning sleeps and the parties at night.

I hope you are okay, and let this time without a treasure one remain okay. We share your loss, we will all experience something like this.

I had a discussion topic 'mother has no substitute' earlier some months back and there I have mentioned and may have commented their views. Yes, still I am telling, mother has no substitute and the love of a mother is not greter than anything. I know your feeling and what it could be. Mother is just mother and there is no substitue for her...

hundred per cent right. we feel the absence of people only when they are not with us. we miss our people, At times when we are together we may fight forgetting this. mother plays an important role. i am not surprised in your missing her. So be a good boy when mother returns back and tell her. in India we do not tell others about our good feelings for them whereas in the western countries they do not hesitate to share good feelings to their close people also.

Well when i was an elementary grade and come home the first words comes out from my mouth if i never saw my mother is "where is mama" so feels like the house if no mother is incomplete and i do agree for that. She is very important of the house..

That is totally true. Though I lost my mom in an early age, we manage to have a good family. I really missed her, especially that I have a wife. I think she would be happy and nice if she she see us right now. Thanks

I know the feeling. I have never seen yet my mother since I was in my elementary days ( 7years old ), I just only seeing her in a picture. :( It is so hard having no mother beside you and it is very sad. It's like your life is not complete without her. You need to be strong in heart and in mind. And now, I'm still hoping that one day I will see her personally. T_T

If I have a mom, but i dont have dad? how do you call it? Is it still a home?