easily upset?
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
August 11, 2012 4:39am CST
are you a type of a person who easily upset especially when someone tell something about you such as clothes dont fit to your body or your hair is not good to your face?if you are already upset to that how will you overcome it?why?do you have an experienced when someone upset you?
18 responses
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
i am always not this type of person. When one notices ony the bad things they see in me... I tend tto just say that t was rather just about them only able to see negative things and it is not about me. I dont care what others think. I am more concerned of my own happiness and trying to take heart allother people say about you can only frustrate you.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
•
12 Aug 12
People tend to upset other people sometimes with out thinking, or even care.
I feel that as I have got older I have hardened up to what people have to say about me, or other people.I feel that there will always be people that upset others when there is no need.I have been deeply hurt by one person in the past and this has made me a stronger person.
@Mark72125 (135)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Aug 12
I do get a little upset yes but I always try to forget it as soon as possible.There is really no point in being upset because if you have confident in yourself no one should have any problem.Though I try to hear what people have to say about my things and then I try to learn and bring the best things I can from there.So,yes I do get upset and I try to overcome it by being confident and trying to get better at it!
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
11 Aug 12
I'm a very sensitive person so I do tend to get upset rather easily. One thing that I don't do though, is let others see me upset unless it's a rare situation where I can't hold it back. Sometimes people are really insensitive with their comments, I don't see it as being necessary at all.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Aug 12
I think that it pretty much depends on my mood that day and the other things that has happened that day. On days where I am in a great mood and feel happy and optimistic that kind of comments don't bother me and I don't get hurt or upset. I listen to the comments and then I just forget them. On the days where I am unhappy or feel vulnerable that kind of comments upset me and I find it hard to forget them. I think that I feel that way because I am already in a bad mood and those comments just make it worse. Sometimes it helps to write about those comments in my diary. When I write I often manage to see things from a different perspective.
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
11 Aug 12
Yes, I am such a person who gets upset easily by what someone tells me or comments about me. I have been upset many times in my life because of this nature. Just a few days back someone I thought was a friend told me rude things and I could not sleep the entire night. I was so restless. I have of late acquired a friend who is trying his best to help me overcome this nature of mine. I am trying my best not to get upset easily. Hope in time, I can stop this thing completely.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
11 Aug 12
for sure i also get really irritated and annoyed if some one suggests me or keep pestering for clothes.i get upset its my weak area.so i will try to be calm and control the anxiety that time
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
11 Aug 12
Everybody may ever feel that coz they care about that.Honestly,i do easily upset when i feel that sometimes i'm not feeling good when someone told me something that i really care about.However,i learn to accept and have to change,but still need to insist sometimes,that's me.
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
11 Aug 12
Yes I've been easily upset this days, and for some reasons that I been expect to much too, like my friends disappoint me for being lazy, self-centered and self-fish. And for my future work that I must wait for almost 8 to 9 most to get my visa (but im still grateful I only have 3 months left). But then 9 most is almost more than half of a year (super disappointed)
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
11 Aug 12
Hi... Yes, I get upset very easily when someone passes some wicked remark about me or my personality... I lose my temper and things might take bad turn. Yesterday itself, a colleague in the office made fun of my first name, they all roared. I lost my cool and told my colleague that I'd not tolerate it. I felt bad for shouting at him, but could not help it. I don't take insults with any ease. And the one who insults has to pay for it....
@simplealvi (148)
• Pakistan
11 Aug 12
First of all getting upset is Normal there is nothing wrong with it, so if you do get upset it's normal. As of me i don't usually get upset just because some one don't like my cloth or my look or my face, it's totally his problem. Question is am i ok with my looks, so i'm ok then nothing matters. So stop getting upset just from these little things, their not worth it.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
11 Aug 12
I wonder who would say things like that to anyone? It's possible to let a friend know that something doesn't look quite right without being insulting. There are ways to tactfully tell a person something doesn't look quite right without overdoing it. This is a touchy subject because some people are very sensitive and no matter how you approach that kind of thing they will be hurt and/or angry. Or the subject could be approached with a little humor, although not in such a way as to make the person feel as if they're being made fun of. No one has ever done that to me. And I would never do that to anyone. I hope that hasn't happened to you. To overcome it you have to look at who said it. Is it someone who may be jealous of you or dislike you for some reason? Then ignore it. The person is getting what they wanted if they see you're upset. If it is a good friend with good intentions a serious talk may be in order to explain that either you don't wish to be told those kinds of things or that, if they really are a good friend, they could find a nicer, more gentle way of telling you. Hope this helps.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
11 Aug 12
I guess it depends on my mood when such "crude" remarks were thrown my way. I usually am always in a good mood and I always try to steer away from negative vibes. But when someone tried that one on me, I just say, oh you're the only one. Most of the time I just nod and smile, or say okay and that's it. I can't let someone just ruin my whole day. But let's say I am already having a bad time and there's an insensitive ____ who still agitated me in that way, I will just say "Really? At least I can still burn my fat away/ask my stylist to fix my hair; unlike some other people who cannot re-learn good manners since they really don't have it to begin with." Then, just smile again, lol!