Am i a strict Mother?
By marketing07
@marketing07 (6266)
South Korea
August 13, 2012 5:52am CST
Im a kind of person who grow up that always follow my parents rules,that is why i also want to apply that rules to my kids. ive been very disappointed with my eldest son...because my inlaws spoiled him..and i hate it.now, my youngest daughter is also spoiled by my husband. and thats im very angry with him...so after an argument with my husband he let me do what i want to our daughter...now i never let my daughter play outside until she never study her lesson...and that she told me im too much..mylotters friend,am i a strict mother? pls.share
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3 responses
@youless (112561)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Aug 12
I can understand you because I am also a mother. I think most mothers want to do the best for their children, no matter the methods are correct or not. Others can't have a doubt that these mothers don't love their children because their ways may not be suitable. And sometimes when I talk to my son and then he cries because he is emotional. And then my dad will think that I am too strict to him. And it seems I am the person who is wrong. I really don't like that at all. I always think I am a reasonable mom. If my son can't accept my talk, then it is just his fault. I don't abuse him. When he is wrong, I can't alway say something good to him.
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@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
13 Aug 12
hi, youless yes, some people doesnt know how we love our kids..but its really difficult to discipline a child when their is someone who always questioning how we discipline them...thank you
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
If you have a lot of rules, then you are a strict one. If only that, studying before playing outside, that's okay. Children have to know their responsibilities as students. If we don't check them while they are younger, they will even get more stubborn in the future. You're a good mom. You just want the best for your children. Happy myLotting!
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
13 Aug 12
yes, angel i do value their education..because i want them to become responsible with their life in the future..thank you
@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
13 Nov 12
Some parents are so strict with their children, especially they are in teens. They need to do this to refrain from going in the wrong pathway. But the strict techniques should be in balance. Since their children need to let them learn life for themselves. The parents are there to guide them.
