She came back because of inheritance !!!
By marketing07
@marketing07 (6266)
South Korea
August 16, 2012 10:37am CST
The wife of my brother in-law go away when my mother in-law got sick.she never want to help the family to look after my sick mother in-law.so, i left behind to look after her.after a year my mother in law died,and the wife of my brother in law showed up,everyone in the family never welcome her. but few days after the funeral, she ask me about the house of my mother inlaw. i explain to her,that the house belongs to my husband it was my husband property and thats he only let her mother stay there.just this morning she called me again and ask the savings of my mother inlaw...although i know the truth i just tell her i dont know, just ask your husband. now i know why she came back...she very greedy, i dont know how to deal with her..
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8 responses
@coelenterata (188)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 12
it is easy my friend just let her be do not be stressed out just because of her.the house is belongs to your husband and she only wife of your brother in law so she has no right to speaks any of the inheritance.in time she will know that her effort is futile and she will not bother you anymore so do not worry her too much :)
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@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
17 Aug 12
yes, but im thinking why my brother inlaw accept her again..
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@coelenterata (188)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 12
maybe because he still loves her,hey sometimes loves is blind you know.but it can be because of other reason like pity or else who knows what everybody was thinking.hope your brother in law will not help or even defend her if she was wrong
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
17 Aug 12
Be careful with her , she might can 't be trusted . Money are the root of all evils . She might be only after of money. One and for all talk to her , be frank but be gentle. Spare to her if ever she have a legal right over those inherited things , then if none say it without inhibitions but with heart.
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@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
17 Aug 12
yes, your right but its very difficult for me to talk to her..shes like a tiger.. she cannot accept that she is wrong..
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@marguicha (220158)
• Chile
10 Sep 12
THere´s nothing to do with her. You are not her lawyer. Tell her to talk to her husband if she wishes, but the most she will get is part of whatever your brther-in-law got, if he got anything and wants to share. But there´s no way he can take anything that is yours. And, of course, you have nothing at all to talk with her if you don´t want to, not even about the weather.
@violann (436)
• United States
16 Aug 12
People like that are difficult to deal with. Since she is not blood inform her she needs to contact her blood relatives to get this information and that you were not put in charge of the estate.
Just be polite as possible when you talk to her, I'm sure her family will let her know where she stands. Someone like that really doesn't deserve anything, doesn't mean they won't get anything, they just don't deserve to.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
17 Aug 12
according to her relatives,she is greedy...i pity her,but she never appreciate my effort instead she always make gossip about me...
@jellsiguenza (147)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
You don't have to talk to her. You tell her that she should ask her husband about it. Or better, tell your husband about his sister-in-law attitude so that your husband can tell his brother about it. From your story I think she is really up to something. In my opinion I think the best remedy is for you telling your husband about what she's asking from you. So that he can settle it with his brother. in order to avoid miscommunication among your family.
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@Jdaw1985 (3967)
• Harrells, North Carolina
18 May 16
I do hope that your brother in law saw right through her during this. I would have never let her come back.
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
21 Aug 12
You did the right thing when you told her to just ask
Her husband. Obviously, she is so interested with
the inheritance and anything she can get. do not waste
time talking to her. If she ask you one more time
about inheritance, tell her 'I do not know and I am not
Interested'. That should put her to shame and realize how
Greedy she is and you are not.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
That woman is really something. She didn't help a dying old woman and yet she has the courage and face to ask for inheritance. I hope your mother in law didn't gave her a single cent. There really are people who are only after the money.
