how to be a perfect lover/partner to our love ones??
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
August 22, 2012 9:27am CST
good day to all of you fellow mylotters, we all know that there healthy relationship and there are not too,but do we need to be a perfect lover or partner to our love ones?how? do we need to change something in our attitude or to our self just to be a perfect lover/partner?why? and how?
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15 responses
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
24 Oct 12
I think no one of us can be perfect. And just doing the right thing just to make our love one or partner to be happy and be contented with us is enough.We don't need to be perfect at all in order for us to show our feeling with someone . Trust and faithfulness is the key to happy and healthy relationship.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
24 Aug 12
You can be perfect for your partner maybe not to the rest of the world but you can complete each other . My bf and I was friend at first and after we start dating we argue a lot lol but it was because we never like sharing each other .
We realize that and we change our possessive and jealous ways , we used our friendship as the foundation and we never lose that part we share everything with each other .
@toniganzon (72277)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
We don't have to be a perfect lover. We just have to complement each other. There's no such thing as perfect lovers. What makes a relationship work is when the partners accept each other's fault and compromise on that.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 12
Hi,
"In the beginning, God made a man and a woman," they lived a perfect life in Paradise, their love life was perfect and everything was.
Then came the great fall, man and woman is no more, paradise is lost and we are cast into this cursed world of sorrows and pain, of false faces, lies and useless masquerades, perfection but a distant memory in the past.
Today, "a fault-finder can find fault even in Paradise," the great Thoreau once said.
@majuuyaitai22 (93)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
Actually, there is no such thing as "Perfect" and being imperfect is absolutely what you need to make a relationship works. What do I mean by that? I just want to say that you too, as an imperfect human being, can be as perfect as what you want because you too should fill each other's imperfections. That's why they called it "Better half". You two should love each other unconditionally so that relationship will work. Aside from that, you have to understand each other because humans are not perfect. You have to learn to forgive and forget, give and take, and love and love each other all over again.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
I don't think there is such thing as perfect relationship. I believe all relationship has flaws and misunderstanding along the way. No matter how much both parties love each other, there will always be a time when they don't agree at some point. What we can do for the relationship to work is to learn how to understand each other and learn to lower down our pride.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
23 Aug 12
I agree with others there is no such thing as perfect. In my case I am not a perfect lover and my boyfriend even told me that I am hard to handle. But guess what? We are more than 5 years now in our strong relationship. It just so happened that my partner is willing to adjust himself to have more patient and understand me even if he find it hard to do so. Aside from that you don't need to be a martyr especially if your partner has an attitude problem. BE WISE!!! in choosing your partner. Because you know what is the problem of most girls around there? They tend to find challenging boyfriend because they are dreaming for a fact that a guy would change because of them?
Duuhhhh??? What in the world? Women are not designated to become a fairy godmother in the first place or to become magician. Even God can't just make it easy as that or He won't do it. If you want to have a wonderful lovelife just choose a person whom you know that is humble, the one you can trust, loyal and make sure you understand each other. Also make sure that your partner is willing to love you. Don't force anyone to love you because in the end it will be miserable.
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
22 Aug 12
Perfection is relative. We all have different values and likes. If anyone want to be a 'perfect' lover, just be one that your lover wants you to be. What is your lover's idea of a perfect lover? Do and be like what he/she wants then you are one.
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
23 Aug 12
I am in such a mood to fall in love at this moment in time :) ... I love questions like this. For me, love is a living thing, and I really look forward to being able to really say "I love you" someday to someone special. That will be a very awesome time for me. I tend to leave myself 'as is' so I can meet an excellent man who loves me for who I am! I'm looking now, I'm on the market, lol. So I'll see what pops up for me. But to answer your questions, I'll just make sure I'm as is. just me :) If he likes it, I'm fine with it:)
@riyauro (6421)
• India
22 Aug 12
yeah I would say a perfect relationship is when there is fear of God. and when there is fear of God, Then the person will not do anything to hurt his or her partner in any way. It is very hard to be perfect lover but you can always try to be and you will be close to it. No harm in trying. thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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@francis920176 (84)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
being a perfect lover is difficult but at least you aim to reach close to it. one way is to know your partner so you can adjust yourself to his/her character.
@bdfreelancer (518)
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23 Aug 12
I can honestly tell you that there is no such thing called perfect, be it to mean a person or a thing. Well, there is of course ways to be a near perfect lover or partner by being nice, caring, honest, loving and understanding to our loved ones.
@mikej143 (309)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
Their would be perfect partner when their would be third party and that third would be fear of GOD our Lord Jesus Christ. Same faith would be Big factor to have a relationship would be crucial if the intention would be just to be IN the society or just doing to prove somebody etc.. or what ever the reason behind it. If you need to find perfect try not to find and suddenly it will come up in front in us. and their would no Need to change of any attitude to be fit in any relationship etc if you do gave importance with it.
@vanessa11 (296)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
There is no such thing as "perfect" but I can say that to be perfect to someone you love is to be everything that he/she needs.
Need to have a give and take relationship so that your relationship grows healthy and happy. Change your bad side and remain the good side but you don't need to change who you are. And don't forget to always put God in between to lead your relationship on the right path.
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