who is more stronger-men /women
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
India
August 23, 2012 2:32am CST
Hello all my friends and members here Ji,
Being Indian old aged lady here, I had hot discussion on some point and remained healthy one, as we took our dinner nicely after our discussion. The main point is taht after discussion, I started crying . So my hubby remarked, ladies have nothing other than rolling out tehjir tears, why I should have wept as I could not convince my hubby. Is it taht I am weak and could not resist the situation warranted. But we always have been niurished that 'WOMEN ARE MORE STRONGER THAN MEN' We are known as 'SHAKTI' means 'STRENGTH' What are your views , it may hold as my concept. Please come out with free and frank opinions and criticism openly. Thanks in advance. Tears are no indication of weakness. Our DIL considers more stronger than my hubby.
May God bless You and have a great time 
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7 responses
@else22 (4317)
• India
23 Aug 12
I agree with you that tears are not the sign of weakness.They show emotions and being emotional is not being weak.I am a man and emotional too,but tears seldom come to my eyes.That does not mean I am strong.You are a lady.This too does not mean that all ladies are 'Durga' or Shakti.Both male and female can be strong or weak as well.I think,the more control we can exercise over ourselves,the stronger we are.All men are not strong.All women too are not strong.Strength can't be defined in terms of genders.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
23 Aug 12
Hello my friend else22 Ji,
Well, as I sited our example of discussion, also I told frankly, that after discussion, atmosphere was so nice that we had good dinner as well. But why I should have wept, probly, I felt that my argument is lacking and I am being defeated. My hubby says, why women start weeping, if they run short of argument, if they have nothing to say. But one thing is sure that tears can not be attributed to weakness, it could be emotional. Then how and why emotional, when we have discussion for one point say why so and so was not cooked, then either person responsible for cooking should agree that it was prepared by her/his choice and not giving simple excuse , about non-avalibilty of items required for cooking that dish, and then finally resorting to rolling out tears.
May God bless You and have a great time
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
24 Aug 12
[b] Hello my friend else22 Ji,
You are absolutely correct, I am along with my two more sisters and two brothers were brought up by my mother who lost our father at a very early age, when i even do not re-collect my father's image. my my motehr was a strong lady. Next, tears should come out from body as they are unwanted by system, if tehya re left tehre, they will create some diseases. I am of the view that both are equal, Mahatama Gandhiji clearly told that if he is active, She is passive. both are complementary to each other. This world is incomplete witiout both.
May God bless You and have a great time
@512771751 (1096)
• China
24 Aug 12
I think men are stronger than women physiologically, but in some other fields, women are stronger than men. There is no difference.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
24 Aug 12
Hello my friend 512771751 Ji,
Well, first of all I wish to congretulate you on crossing 500 mks of postings, where now you can copy and paste. For me it looks odd to address you in form of NUMBERS as they sound and relate with something else. You are very right that both are equal
May God bless You and have a great time
@cagampan1991 (364)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
Both Men and Women are created equal. Maybe men are physically stronger but women are also stronger in some other aspects. Physical strength is not only the basis for which gender is stronger. Although men are physically stronger, it doesn't mean that it lessens the self worth of women. As we dont know, each people have their own strengths in their life.
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
24 Aug 12
Hello my friend cagampan1991 Ji,
Well, as I sited our example of discussion, also I told frankly, that after discussion, atmosphere was so nice that we had good dinner as well. But why I should have wept, probly, I felt that my argument is lacking and I am being defeated. My hubby says, why women start weeping, if they run short of argument, if they have nothing to say. But one thing is sure that tears can not be attributed to weakness, it could be emotional. Then how and why emotional, when we have discussion for one point say why so and so was not cooked, then either person responsible for cooking should agree that it was prepared by her/his choice and not giving simple excuse , about non-avalibilty of items required for cooking that dish, and then finally resorting to rolling out tears.
May God bless You and have a great time
May God bless You and have a great time
May God bless You and have a great time 
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
hello mgbu,
I do not agree that tears symbolize WEAKNESS!
I admire men who are not afraid to show their tears.
Men who cry are not coward- but rather the strongest because they are not pretenders.
They can show what they really feel without limitations.
Women cry because that's their way of showing their anger and other emotions.
Women are not physically strong than men who can punch and throw things they want when they are angry.
But women are stronger when it comes to mental and emotional aspect.
Men always claim they are stronger than women because of PRIDE!
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
23 Aug 12
Hello my friend jaiho2009 Ji,
Well, as I sited our example of discussion, also I told frankly, that after discussion, atmosphere was so nice that we had good dinner as well. But why I should have wept, probly, I felt that my argument is lacking and I am being defeated. My hubby says, why women start weeping, if they run short of argument, if they have nothing to say. But one thing is sure that tears can not be attributed to weakness, it could be emotional. Then how and why emotional, when we have discussion for one point say why so and so was not cooked, then either person responsible for cooking should agree that it was prepared by her/his choice and not giving simple excuse , about non-avalibilty of items required for cooking that dish, and then finally resorting to rolling out tears.
May God bless You and have a great time
@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
We should take this a constructive criticism. Physically, men are stronger than women. Emotionally, women are too emotional than men. Mentally, I think both are equal. Moreover, they should be treated equally for an opportunity.
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
23 Aug 12
Hello my friend Shavkat Ji,
Well, as I sited our example of discussion, also I told frankly, that after discussion, atmosphere was so nice that we had good dinner as well. But why I should have wept, probly, I felt that my argument is lacking and I am being defeated. My hubby says, why women start weeping, if they run short of argument, if they have nothing to say. But one thing is sure that tears can not be attributed to weakness, it could be emotional. Then how and why emotional, when we have discussion for one point say why so and so was not cooked, then either person responsible for cooking should agree that it was prepared by her/his choice and not giving simple excuse , about non-avalibilty of items required for cooking that dish, and then finally resorting to rolling out tears.
May God bless You and have a great time
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
24 Aug 12
Hello my friend nupur123 Ji,
Oh ! God after so long time I am with another Nupur, in 1972 one Nupur daughter of my hubby's friend used to come to me for learning Sanskrit, then one Nupur came across in 1999 and now you. You must be bengali. OK come back to my comments. Do you know after so called fighting started in Dec-1969 and we have never been seperated with all our day to day solving bottle-necks. One may call as fights, but we do not have swords , my hubby never allows me to use knife as I am a diabetic patient, he will cut vegetables for me.
Well, as I sited our example of discussion, also I told frankly, that after discussion, atmosphere was so nice that we had good dinner as well. But why I should have wept, probly, I felt that my argument is lacking and I am being defeated. My hubby says, why women start weeping, if they run short of argument, if they have nothing to say. But one thing is sure that tears can not be attributed to weakness, it could be emotional. Then how and why emotional, when we have discussion for one point say why so and so was not cooked, then either person responsible for cooking should agree that it was prepared by her/his choice and not giving simple excuse , about non-avalibilty of items required for cooking that dish, and then finally resorting to rolling out tears.
May God bless You and have a great time
@riyauro (6421)
• India
23 Aug 12
For me I think I can't generalize like that. Not all women are stronger than men. I am glad that you are strong woman. I know tears are no indication to weakness but there are times when tears can be an indication to weakness. some people cry when they are scared or have fear in them and this is a weakness. Some people cry when they are too happy.
So, tears have different meanings reasons.
Being a strong woman or men will depend on the human being and it can not be generalized that any one is strong or weak.
thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead 
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
23 Aug 12
Hello my friend riyauro Ji,
Well, as I sited our example of discussion, also I told frankly, that after discussion, atmosphere was so nice that we had good dinner as well. But why I should have wept, probly, I felt that my argument is lacking and I am being defeated. My hubby says, why women start weeping, if they run short of argument, if they have nothing to say. But one thing is sure that tears can not be attributed to weakness, it could be emotional. Then how and why emotional, when we have discussion for one point say why so and so was not cooked, then either person responsible for cooking should agree that it was prepared by her/his choice and not giving simple excuse , about non-avalibilty of items required for cooking that dish, and then finally resorting to rolling out tears.
May God bless You and have a great time
