What Do You Want To Know?

To what came up into my mind(hehehe). we'll I just ask them directly if he really likes me and what are those things he like about me.

DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE AND A JOB?. So many times did I hook up with a guy and before I knew it he moved in with me and had no job. So I really always ask that Question now.....well I would if I was ever single again, I've been with the same guy for 10 years now and yes he moved in with me too

that is a good way of doing things. I ask questions like what went wrong with your last relationship, do you feel you are ready for a new relationship what do you want to get out of this thing between you and me. Are you only wishing to date or do you want a commitment if so what kind, marriage living together, living separately but going steady how long do you think you will want to stay single do you see yourself in a committed relationship in five years? then all the other stuff, like let's determine what we have in common

I would ask what a guy does on Sundays. It's my way of trying to ask without being rude if he goes to church. Of course he could always belong to a denomination that attends church on Saturdays, but odds are it would be Sunday. Other than that it seems guys spill their guts easily enough. Or maybe I just have a face that says "talk about yourself all the time, I won't mind."

Personally, I really to know his family background. It is because I want to know how he was raised by his family, through that, I can know a little about his personality. I want to know if he is the youngest or the oldest or the only son. I also want to know if he is close to his mom or what kind of son he is. I think it's a turn on on me if he cared for his family. It is true that how a guy treat his mom, is exactly how he will treat his future wife someday. I am a type of person that before I commit into a relationship, I'll make it sure I found a serious one. I want a long term relationship because I do not want to waste my time dealing with playing games or just for the sake that I am in a relationship. I rather be single for a long time so that when I commit myself in a relationship, it's all worth it.

I'd like to ask her does she have any hobby and what it is,and talk about it.if I found that we fit each other,I want to ask some question more personal,after all,Rome was not built in a day...hahaha ,we cannt konw each other completely at once

I believe that a couple should talk about their values right away. I am just honest and upfront about what I believe and want for my life. If they don't believe it, or share the same values, we're probably not compatible. I hope they are the same with me. it's no longer an issue because I'm married, but this is exactly the method tha my husband and I used. We both take our values, our faith, and our politics very very seriously. We've been together for five years, now.

I would like to know what he does for a living. If he still has the same job he did when he went to high school, something is wrong--no ambition I guess.

Hello singlemommy, when I stated dating my husband I just asked him about his family and past relationship. Since he was my classmate and group mates we have lots of time to talk and to know each other a lot better. I am just glad that my husband became very honest to all my questions even though i know it was below the belt and awkward question but instead he showed me the real him and prove all his answered to me.