"Forgive ever hurt never"

@prashu228 (37524)
India
August 24, 2012 9:02am CST
hello friends, I have heard this line from my childhood, i hope you too. I always think, is it possible to forgive always, and don't hurt anyone ever in life? I don't think so, knowingly or unknowingly , i do hurt people around me(especially family members) , but it just happens,in a fraction of second, we realize it afterwards. friends ,what do you think, is it possible to forgive always, in any circumstances, or is it possible to never hurt a person ,please share your views..
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24 responses
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
It's possible to forgive always but it's not easy to forget. I don't think it's possible that we never hurt other people, because whatever we do, we will always hurt others. No matter how careful we are, we can't stop hurting others. Why? Because they have their own minds, they perceive things differently. If we think we are doing right, to them it might not be the same thing. There will always be a misunderstanding.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
25 Aug 12
hi, i agree, we cant forget always, i might be impossible too, misunderstanding , happens alot of times, even with the most close person ,who know us in and out, thanks for the response
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
Hurting people unknowingly is inevitable. Sometimes it's not our intention, but some people are too sensitive that even jokes hurts them. Yes, we later realize that we've hurt someone- but then again, it's not our intention. Asking forgiveness is the only way to ease the pain...
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
25 Aug 12
yes we cant change it, no matter what, we can hurt some or the other many times, but it depends on how immediately we , recognize it, and make them understand, what our intention was, have a nice day
• Philippines
24 Aug 12
It's possible if you will do your best not to hurt that person. It's you who's going to be hurt because you might sacrifice your happiness for him or for her. It's possible to forgive people always. We should forgive them so we will also be forgiven. If we don't forgive, we don't have any peace of mind. It's okay to make mistakes because we'll learn from them. So, there's no harm in asking for forgiveness if we really mean it. Happy mylotting.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
25 Aug 12
yes, there is nothing wrong in trying, and we will succeed one day, you said it right, we learn from mistakes, and should never ever make that mistaken again, as someone said committing a mistake is not mistake, learning nothing from a mistake is a mistake..have a good day ahead
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
26 Dec 12
It is very true and i have too heard it from my Grand papa and mom many times in my childhood. It is but natural that to forgive every time is not possible for us as a common human beings and not saints. But as far as possible try to cultivate this habit so that everything will be easier.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
It's possible to actually, forgiveness is a matter of choice. We can choose to forgive a person or not. As for me... I do forgive a person but it also takes time for to forget what she/he did to me that causes me hurt. Forgiveness is a way of welcoming peace ache-less-ness or worry free life. I find it hard to do most of the time specially when I am proving myself right and the person just turn me down, but I know I must forgive because the Lord say so.
23 Dec 12
I do agree with you that it is impossible for every one to forgive on every occasion. Sometime knowingly or unknowingly others can get hurt from us. Sometime other do such mistake or create such problem that you can not forgive. Therefore we must try to forgive as and when we can.
@artemeis (4194)
• China
25 Aug 12
I don't think anyone can ever NOT hurt someone in a lifetime because we are all imperfect and will offend and hurt people around us in one way or another. Whether consciously or subconsciously, I think it is important to realize our mistakes and know when to admit and correct our wrongs. In this way, it will lead us into understanding what forgiveness is about and how to forgive with an accepting heart. It will let us know how the forgiven party will feel as we have been in that situation before. So, not faulting will never let us understand the whole picture here.
• India
26 Aug 12
Hurting a person is easy, telling 'sorry' is more easy, forgiving is not that easy, there are good as well as bad persons on this planet, most behave in unpredictable manner.. Professor
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
hi, we can forgive always but not easily and it will need take more times before we can forgive that person,and aside from that it will depend upon the situation if how deep and pain the hurt she/he did to us before we can forgive that person who hurt us.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
25 Aug 12
absolutely true, but i think we hurt people most times only when we dont like them.so they deserve to be punished,but other times we can forgive them,nothing more than that
@else22 (4317)
• India
25 Aug 12
I have no hesitation in claiming that I never hurt anybody whether he is a member of my family or a friend of mine or a stranger,a beggar or even my servant.I never hurt others even unknowingly,because I think many times before saying anything to anybody no matter who he or she is.Actually I have been hurt by some of my elders and professors in college and know how it feels being hurt.Briefly,it is impossible for me to hurt anybody,because it makes the feeling of being hurt boomerang on myself. But it is also impossible for me to forgive others always.Even in my hometown who have immensely hurt my mother,my father,my family and myself.I can't forgive them.In fact,I am always on the look out for chances when I would be able to pay them back in the same coins.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
25 Aug 12
I think both are impossible. The only thing we can do to take as much precaution as we can not to hurt others and forgive as far as possible. Because sometimes there are so cruel,selfish, rude people whom no one can forgive or i can say that they don't deserve to be forgive.
• India
25 Aug 12
Hi friend, forgiving others for their silly mistakes is always good, in fact forgiving is the best revenge, it is really hard to free from hurts, as you mentioned we may hurt others with or without our knowledge, so hurt never is impossible, but we can try our maximum to avoid hurting activities
@kiwang (2)
25 Aug 12
its hard to forgive, thats true, especially if youre hurt so much,theres nothing wrong in forgiving and thats one rule in life actully but its not easy,it takes time to forgive and its impossible not hurting others in life. We are not perfects, so we hurt others and others hurts us too.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
25 Aug 12
hi prashu, do not hurt any body in life is good thing,but we cannot stop our emotions and some times we will hurt some,and some also hurt us some times,if any body hurt us forgive their mistakes, now i am doing the same,even any body hurt me,i am forgiving his/her mistakes and once again i am moving as usual with him/her,have a nice day.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
i think that it is impossible not to hurt people there will be a time in your life that you will loose your cool and even though you are the kindest person you will hurt someone unconsciously and the damage will be done long before you can really take in what you have done.
• India
25 Aug 12
I am also having the same policy "help somebody hurt nobody". If you help the people one day you will get help from them in a tough situation. People life is short so we should make it sweet while we are living in the world.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
25 Aug 12
Even we know we'd better not hurt others, but still it's too difficult for us to control our temper. I know I often hurt my family with words and soon I feel regretful for that. But I am trying to control myself all the time.
@sunil76 (32)
• India
24 Aug 12
Hello friends,It is not possible to avoid hurting others always.Directly or indirectly, we do hurt somebody in our daily life.But whether you hurt somebody or not depends upon a number of factors.Your attitude,behavior,social & economical position,culture,thinking,the way you speak,concise,the people surrounding us all affects our behaviour towards others.But we should & we can manage not to hurt others to a large extent.We have to think from a different angle or from a broader prospective when situation is critical.Forgiveness is one of the best human virtue we possess.We should forgive others,when we forgive someone,it gives us tremendous inner satisfaction,it fulfills the vacant in your life and the person to whom we forgive realises his mistakes and it can change his life towards better.Thanks & regards.....
• India
24 Aug 12
i dont think its possible, always to forgive and forget, and never hurt, as you said, it may happen, instinct