Hey' Are You a Jealous Lover?

Philippines
August 26, 2012 1:05am CST
So' why people jealous?Is jealousy a sign of true love? Or is jealousy in relationship bad? How to know you are a jealous lover or not?
10 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
Jealousy is a normal feeling but getting overboard can harm any relationship.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
28 Aug 12
It can be a sign of love , but after you get to know the person I dont think you will get so jealous again . After trust is build jealousy will reduce in my experience .
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
26 Aug 12
Jealousy is not a bad influence with your love one because it just goes to prove that your love is very strong.All things are done the right ways that you have to put down your jealousy when you are meeting people,so was your lover have to see to it that she does things the right ways to avoid the sensitive love one.You got to have great understanding in all aspect of your relationship and quarrels can be minimized or be avoided.You do not need any proof that your lover loves you very much because his being a jealous type is a proof that he loves you more than anything and even his life would be a price.Can you also do the same as you lover does for the betterment of your relationship?
@luxlyangels (1286)
26 Aug 12
How many questions are you asking here? Anyways being jealous may be a good thing or a bad thing. For Those who are over possesive, it may result into some very dangerous situation for both parties, some people however do like a jealous partner, as for me, I don't know If I ll like one or not know if I ll like one or not.
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
26 Aug 12
I am not a jealous type person, but I need to be secured that there is a trust in our relationship. They said, jealousy can kill. But you can control the situation, never feel insecurities.
@KateMary (23)
• Romania
26 Aug 12
Hard to say .In esence jealosy is the replacement of fear.When you`re jealous you`re afraid of being replaced by another person in heart ,mind and life by the person you love .It is not love that is blind, but jealousy.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
26 Aug 12
I realized that whether I am a jealous lover or not, it will really depends on my partner. I've been through a couple of relationship before and there are times that I don't get jealous but I have this partner that I always feel jealous. It is because I am not that confident with this guy. I worry that he might find another and will leave me in broken pieces. He also doesn't show me that much that he will be with me no matter what and that I am his first priority. Seeing those, I lost my confidence and began to bear in my mind that anytime soon, I will lose him. Thinking that way, I began to become jealous when I see some girls being around him. I see that as a threat and I hate that feeling. But I also had this partner that is far different from him. He made me feel that I am the center of his world. I feel so confident about him love for me and so I don't feel jealous when I see girl around because I know that he won't leave me.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
26 Aug 12
Maybe jealousy is a sign of true love, for i'm a jealous woman and i hope my boyfriend would treat me as his really family member and sometimes man can not resist the temptation from outside world, thus i can understand. At least he is regarding me as his real family.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
26 Aug 12
Like a lot of things jealousy is a normal human behavior. No and yes it can be a sign of true love and yes and no it can also be a sign of bad relationship. No I'm not a jealous lover but that doesn't mean I don't get jealous at times I am human and I will feel that way from time to time just like my husband will. I think if a person is jealous all of the time where they can't let there partner be around other people with out freaking out that they are really possessive, or have trust issue that they really need to work on because to much jealousy isn't a good thing. You have to trust the person your with that even when you might feel a bit jealous that they still love you and still want to be with you.
@freedang (320)
• China
26 Aug 12
i think i am,at least in some degree.i cannt bear that my gf talk the story between she and her ex, i think that is normal ,i just want she is mine. but i would not limit her.everybody is independet