building the confidence of other people

Very true, hotsummer. Some people are envious of other people's luck or fortunes. Some would tend to make up stories just to make the other feel miserable. But I am not that kind of person. Even at my lowest point, I could still feel happy for others. Those who think bad things about others surely has a big problem. I pity them.

So it is that there are really persons around us. They can't see that we are happy and do well in work...... It is really hard to communicate with such co-workers.

its all about inspiring them and building them as a personality in the long run and giving them way ahead,i like to build in them very much,and i am quite happy with it

I have some of that people in my life and I have slowly eliminated some of them. They just can't be happy for other people who honestly work hard to achieve their goals. Instead of taking it against them, why can't they be inspired to do the same and be successful in their own right.

yeah there are kind of people wo can easy-going with the poor even tend to be very helpful to them, while they can't truely help or share others' success in its true sense. they are so shortsighted,and in fact have little confidence in themselves, also they won't have a true happy life. you will learn to limp if you live with a lame person. i don't want to associate with these people too, i like ones who can encourage me to see a brighter world and make me a better person. i am glad to find that still good persons is much more than bad ones. we exist because the world need us lol.

hi, You are right, many people cant see the success of others, they are so sick personalities, they cant even encourage others, but still never leave a chance to discourage them, we sholuld be far from such people.

I have had my share of people who just don't feel good as long as you are feeling good.These people do not meet the requirements of qualifying as a friend with me.But I won't stop their opinion.Anyone can talk the talk.Let him be.Let us hear what he wants to say. I have found people in an extreme manner,one examples stands in mind.That person talked a lot behind my back,spread rumors about me(false,I might add) and so on.When I found out about these,I confronted her,only to realize that this was a revenge because,some time ago,I neglected her.We settled it,and now are god good friends. So,some don't need attention,others do.Who knows,maybe the problem can be solved.

yeah..there was a time that i thought that if someone despise or contempt me.that was the most powerful motivation for me to change myself.my now i do realize that it is the confidence,the encoragement from other people really matter.i want i can give other people confidence whenever possible,just like other people gave me.and i really appreciate the people who have done that for me