this question i always refuse to answer.

That is a silly question. What would be the odds of that actually happening anyway. And what if he were to save mom first and then the girlfriend, would it really make a difference? Lol. Most people aren't going to drown in a few minutes so who's to say that both couldn't be saved? That's really a dumb think to ask. I have never asked a guy anything like this. Only childish little girls would ask someone like this and expect more than a funny look. Lol

Literally that depends on the situation. I will save my mom. I can never find another mother in this life,but I can find new bf...

Why should I pick which of them I will save first? I can simultaneously save them both. It will be difficult but the adrenaline rush will help me out. If I really can't, then I might as well ask for help first to be able to save them both.

In my opinion that is a disgusting question, I would never ask something like that to my boyfriend, and if my bf asked me that I would tell him to grow up and stop saying childish stuff.

I will choose my mother. You can change and find another boyfriend. Your mom is only one in your life.

I remember a friend told me a story about it. He said he dreamed he was on an island with his mom and girlfriend then suddenly the water goes up to the island. He got on a boat with someone else and that boat can only carry 3 person. So the other person ask who will he save? And so after telling me that story, he asked me "Who would you save?" And I told him "Just wake up from that dream" Hahah xD

Why don't you say that you cannot swim....BUT you will ask the most handsome and hunk of a lifeguard to save her, while you struggle to save your mother by your own effort? On the other hand, find a gf who can swim very well...she might save your mother for you too. Just kidding....