When a relationship fails does it mean that one of the partners is...

Hi Kiran! Good or bad is a subjective term. Who will decide who is good and who is bad in between a husband and a wife. In my view a third party is required to be there to judge who is good or who is bad. If any of the two decides herself/himself that other one is bad, then it is not fair. To my mind a relationship will fail if both the partners are bad. I mean if they are unable to adjust with each other and are not willing to accommodate the other partner, then relationship will turn sour. If one of them is good and is able to adjust, then things would go on. Have a nice day!

Usha, i agree, you friend can adjust with her partner instead of pointing his mistake, true relationship needs a good trust and understanding, we must adjust with our partners for little things to keep our relationship in a good manner

Well, it really depends on the two people involved in the relationship. Some might really fail because the other party is not doing well or maybe they might have chose a wrong decision to be on that relationship.

Hello, it is worst situation in life when relationship fails. In opinion for breaking relation single one is not responsible. Both are responsible, one is less and one is more. I agree it is only problem of adjustment and understanding. Lack of conversation is also cause of relations failure.

Nobody is in a position to justifiably evaluate if who is more to be blamed. Both parties have each own differences that contributed to this misunderstanding. Although they are both your friends you will have no authentic way in determining if they both are telling you everything without reservations.

hi, if relationship fails that doesn't mean that both the partners are bad, and need not be so, that completely depends upon the adjustment and understanding as you said, there are different parameters in each person, which will be only known by the partners living together, but not the outsiders, its their decision , whether to live together or not, if they can adjust , no couple on this earth with simply get separated, and its really difficult for them to do do after living for years,a and sharing everything, its not a joke, the outside people will simply decide it in second, about the good and bad of the partners, but that's not correct at all.

As a friend you will have your limitations to make an assessment of the situation Kiran.Even in the case of one's own parents , it may get difficult if a person is posed the question.There must be total honesty in presenting the facts but this is a matter of uncertainty and one can narrate issues on a biased basis.It is a private equation between the two.Some women have a lot of expectations from life , more than what their own quality really warrants. ; for example if I am of a churlish , moody temperament I cannot have sky high expectations that my husband should love , adore and cherish me.I find this is more in the case of women than men in modern days.Adjustment and understanding must be equal and unrestrained from both.But it is always the case of one doing it 'more ' than the other.

Hi kiran, I think, to keep good relation between husband and wife both have to compromise. In all respect it is impossible both have same opinion. One must surrender and have to accept the partner's opinion.They may differ. If they remain stick to own opinion, then quarrel may begin between them. So to keep peace one of the partners must has to surrender.

When two work as one in heart and mind, only then and there one would realize the real meaning of a relationship. We are all born unique from each other, and when one compliments the other to make him/her complete as a person. then i think failure is would unlikely be part of that relationship.

In my opinion, when a relationship fails, it means that one of the partners is at fault or bad. It could be that it's a mutual agreement to end the relationship, because they can't feel the love they once had for each other, no matter how they try to put it back.

I relationship failed,either one of the couples have a problem or they were not destine or meant for each other. :)

Really, it takes two to tango. When one fails to perform his duties and responsibilities, I beleive it can really affect the relationship badly. My wife and I had this roller coaster ride in our relationship, we tried our best to deal things one at a time. We ask for help particularly sorting things out, the guidance from outside and also we pray for courage and wisdom. Thanks

Good evening! About this matter well both side must always give way. Talk there problem Or concerns that will affect most of there relationship, because now a days even 10yrs in relationship always end up of divorce even boyfriend girlfriend they will spend a year just to last this affections but still there is always some argument of it, it's not good each side should blame the other one instead they will talk about there problem privately but what most people does now a days they are more prefer to talk about to there friends instead to there partner which always be one of the reason why some couple end up with divorce , and it's not a good thing at all cos you've been through with this long relationship there's hardship just to be happy then you will just end up with hatred, What I'm trying to say is that this couple must stop blaming each other because of that, this and so forth.

hi, as long as i can see,there is no right or wrong in relationships,it is just a feeling.if one of them feel no right,it doesnt mean that the other is wrong or he is wrong,on one can explain relationship clearly.just follow you feeling

hi kiran madam, That is common in families among the wife and husband, both of them should understand each other and act accordingly. Then only the life run smoothly,we have to forgive small mistakes done by the husband or wife.Some times may happen like that, though my wife does not support me in some things and even though i does not feel any thing. Have a nice day.

In these modern days, there are problems of many kinds,even small matters trigger off and make life worse.A very easy way to solve many problems is communication between a couple, even if there is a need for a third party to guide the couple.Now the situation could get better in a few minutes,also it can take a long time, and also matters can get worse.As i said it is easy,then again it is not easy for everybody.Best.

"One hand cannot sound a clap" so goes the old saying. Both spouses have equal responsibilities in a relationship. When one or both forget this, a relationship fails. There is a limit to tolerance and once this is crossed, we see the inevitable end. One thing is interesting here. If one of the partners is consistently misbehaving and the other, having tolerated it for long call it quits, the society looks down on this person. Why that is so, is beyond my understanding. The person who triggered separation goes free, while the person who suffered for long is labeled as the "bad" one. My preference would be to "nip in the bud" wrong behavior, rather than taken on the mantel of "long suffering".

It can be one of them but mostly, it is both. Marriage takes a lot of patience and understanding. If you fail to understand, though you aren't the one who made a mistake, then I guess, you still have a fault. But this isn't applicable if it has something to do with infidelity. This a ground for separation and we can't really expect the other to understand and accept.

If their relationship is fail may be it is mean that they do not have enough feeling of repect and understanding to each other, I think. No matter what difference 2 people have if they can repect the difference and understand what their partner want or need, I think the relationship can last forever.

If a relationship failed it means that they were not meant to be. If their love for each other is strong they can solve any problem that they are going through or come along the way. In order for a relationship to succeed each of them should work out on it. Meaning they should adjust, listen and trust one another.