Undoing a bully

Hi friend, i agree with you, we have the ability to control the bullies and guide them n a good way, but most of the good persons don't come forward to solve this problem, so only i started this work.

its quite difficult,at some stage, everyone will have to face this sort of problem and manage to be quite and calm

When my son started middle school I noticed he started having trouble with his stomach. Soon I found out that there was a boy at school that bullied. He cut in line, pushed, shoved and was an over all pain in the rear. My son told me what the boy had been doing. He wasn't shoving only my son around but others too. Most of the kids just dreaded seeing him coming their way. I had a meeting with the vice-principle. Long story short the young man was watched and eventually caught bullying the kids. As the months went by I asked my son how things were going with this kid. He said he still bullied sometimes but didn't bother him. I asked him why he wasn't being bothered by him. He said 'I made him my friend.' You know the saying "Keep you friends close and your enemies closer." He figured this out on his own. Of course I realize this is a mild case of bullying but I sure was proud of my son.

I totally agree with you about that. The parents should always be the one to mold their children to become good persons. A talk with the kids every once in a while is a great way of telling them different things about life.

You can discipline a child and mold them into good manners. But, children with delayed mental development are not possible to control the aggressiveness. Unless, medical management had been postulated to them.